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Epsom United Reformed ChurchNewsletter for
December 2007
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Alan Wood Our Church Development Sub-Committee has already heard the initial thoughts of Tom Roberts concerning what could happen to our premises to fit them for the future. And I expect that some of these ideas have filtered down to most people, as they have to me. I do not intend to use these pages to say what I think of them. I would just strongly recommend that.everybody who can attends the Church AGM and listens to Tom’s report for themselves. The following Church Meeting, at which the plans will be discussed by members and adherents, should be interesting! There are a few posters within these pages, giving conspicuous notice to some of the Christmas events taking place in December – and, believe me, there could have been more! It always seems strange to me that all these ‘Christmas’ celebrations actually take place during Advent, thus leaving the ‘Twelve Days of Christmas’, until 6th January, bare of anything Christmassy. Perhaps that is why such prominence has been given on pages 14 and 15 to Advent events. As you will have observed, this issue is meant to cover December and January, with just the possibility of another NewsLetter Extra in five weeks’ time, giving details of events which were not available as this magazine went to print. As it looks from the January calendar as if not a lot is happening in that month, I expect that people will start advising me of dates that, a) they had forgotten to tell me, or b) that they’ve only just thought of organising! If there is any more information of which you need to be made aware, then the Extra will be produced and taken to Ewell on 30th December. 'And Finally...' this month is a set of the one-liner page fillers used in this month's magazine – perhaps they should be called ‘Christmas Crackers’ – which have been taken from a selection of ‘Headlines of the Year’. Here’s one for starters: Nation’s Head seeks Arms And on that note I will close, apart from wishing all my readers a happy and blessed Christmas and a great New Year, and the strength and faith to cope with whatever we shall meet in 2008. Lynne is a bit under the weather with a chest infection but she hopes to be home again towards the end of next week.Lily Moody is still in Leatherhead Hospital. Evelyn Beer has cracked a bone in the other shoulder, and is somewhat incapacitated for a few days. Joe is not very well, and Peggy is finding life rather trying at the moment. We hope for better times ahead. We rejoice with them on the occasion of their Diamond Wedding on 26th December. John Wood is recovering well after minor surgery on his knee. We remember Sonia, Marjorie, Mary, and Dorothy and
Frank with love. Phyl Cary will have her 90th Birthday. The WCC invite
all friends of the church
As I write this, I am looking out onto an Azalea in full blossom! Here in Dunedin on the south island of New Zealand, spring is just getting into full swing. I don't generally attend lectures while on holiday, but Peter's sister Katherine had tickets for the three of us so we went. The lecture, “Beyond Tourism and the Theme Parks” was really about the need for New Zealand to enhance its economy through science rather than just through the traditional industries of dairy and tourism. At first I wondered what this had to do with me, but as the lecture continued, I began to think of the concept in broader terms. Christmas is a very traditional time for many of us. We find ourselves shopping, cooking, eating, going to parties, putting up decorations. These things enhance our celebrations and we wouldn't be without them, would we? But sometimes Christmas feels a little like the repeat of last year and the year before that and the year before that...... We need to develop a greater awareness of what God is saying and doing in the present. Christmas is not just what God did 2000 years ago. If the story of the birth of Jesus is told today with Roman imperialism at its centre, what might be said about the present occupation of Iraq? Jesus was born into a poor family and society; this should cast a shadow over the festival of consumption that Christmas has come to be. The story of the birth of Jesus should lead us into a deeper understanding of Christmas for our present day. It should take us into the community, into the present. Peter and I extend to you our best wishes for Christmas and for 2008. Peace, Pat
Secretary’s Letter I cannot believe this is the last edition of the Newsletter for 2007. I am convinced that as we grow older the time goes faster! I do hope that you will make every effort to attend the Annual General Meeting. I apologise for the change of date, time and venue, but one or two key folk could not be there for the original date. The Longhurst Room is in use, but I promise we will make the Church as warm as possible. When we have conducted our business Tom Roberts will present his report following our Vision Day last month. I know this will be most interesting and thought-provoking. The Elders have arranged the next Church Meeting in January a week earlier than usual so the date of the next Church Meeting will be Wednesday 9th January at 8 p.m. when we will have time to discuss Tom’s ideas, having had a few weeks to think things over. Tom will not attend this meeting. Hopefully we shall then return to our usual dates for Church Meetings – mind you, it is said that a change is as good as a rest! Looking at the dates for December we are certainly going to be busy. I hope you will find the list of dates for both Epsom and Ewell useful (no excuse of not knowing what is going on at both Churches). I am sure you will enjoy all that has been planned for the Christmas period and I would like to thank in advance all those who will either sing, read, play, provide refreshments, decorate the buildings or organise in any way. None of these things happen without a lot of thought and work, so a big thank you if you are involved in any way. I always look forward to Christmas, I have ever since I was a child; it has that magic that no other season can boast. It is even more magic now that we can share opening presents with the family in Australia all those miles away with the aid of the web-cam, but I do get a little tired of hearing carols and seeing crackers and Christmas puddings in October. It just seems that for many that is all that Christmas is about, or is that really true? I would like to hope that underneath the crackers and Christmas puddings Christmas is special to many people. I hope this Christmas will be special to you all and 2008 will bring all you wish for for our Church. Whatever is in store for us I am sure it will be an exciting time and we pray for faith to see it through. The Visit by Rev. Neville Simmons-Smith The church was very surprised and pleased by an un-announced visit by a minister who had been ordained by our then minister, Rev Stephen E. Baker . From the lectern Neville told us a little of his time in the intervening years, and expressed his thanks to the church of those days, and to Stephen Baker. He was very interested in the church and Unity Hall, and asked after many people he knew when worshipping with us.
The Induction was reported in the NewsLetter of August/September, 1959, in the following words (and font): THE REV. NEVILLE SIMMONS-SMITH - The Ordination Service of the Rev, Neville Simmons-Smith in our Church on the 3rd July conducted by the Rev. Howard Stanley, MA, the General Secretary of the Congregational Union of England & Wales was a memorable occasion. There was a service at 4 pm. conducted by the Rev, R.R. Turner of Paton College, and the Rev. Maurice Charles preached the sermon. This was followed by tea in the Church Hall at 5.15 pm. At 7 pm, the service of Ordination was started by the Lesson which was read by our Minister, and after a moving Statement by the Ordinand in which he spoke of how he was led of God to enter the Christian Ministry, there followed the Act of Ordination and the giving of the Right Hand of Fellowship by Mr. Arthur Smith on behalf of our Church, by the Rev. EJ Edwards on behalf of The Congregational Union of British Guiana, and by the Presiding Minister on behalf of The Congregational Union of England & Wales. The choir then sang the anthem "God so loved the World", (Stainer) after which the Rev. R.F.G. Calder, MA, BD, gave the Charge to the Minister. Following the hymn "I lift my heart to Thee" the Blessing was pronounced by the Rev, Neville Simmons-Smith. Others taking part in the Service were the Rev. Maurice Charles, B.A., B.D., B.Litt., Principal of Paton College, Nottingham, and the Rev. D.W. Hamilton-Pollard of British Guiana.
ANGELS, ARCHANGELS & THE WHOLE
BLOOMIN' LOT!
'I’m dreaming of a white Christmas, just like the ones I used to know, where the tree-tops glisten and children listen to hear sleigh bells in the snow.’ So went a slushy sort of song, written by an equally slushy American, Irving Berlin. But we need no prompting as to who are the angels (and archangels presumably) of the Nativity in the first and third Gospels. The early 19th century poet, Byron, made irreverent fun of angels, depicting them singing out of tune and having nothing to do all day except wind up the sun and the moon and curb a runaway star or two. But belief in angels has persisted. John Milton, the greatest poet in the English language and Nonconformist, said, ‘Millions of spiritual creatures walk the earth unseen, both when we sleep and when we awake.’ Do we, therefore, assume that angels are merely part of the fairy-tale trimmings of Christmas? A cartoonist invited laughter by showing Mary, with the baby Jesus, while an angel was seen flying back to heaven. A startled Joseph says, 'It's going to be a bit awkward if he's born with wings!' Jesus, himself, went along with traditional ideas about these heavenly beings. In Gethsemane he claimed to have at his disposal more than twelve armies of angels. And Psalm 91 tells about angels protecting God's chosen wherever they go. All of us, at some time or other, have been influenced by angels or, rather, by dreams. Joseph, like his Old Testament namesake of Technicolour Dreamcoat fame, was a dreamer. We read that an angel appeared to him in his sleep, telling him not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife. So angels and dreams may well be channels of communication through which God speaks to us. So while you prepare for the festivity with angels, archangels and the whole bloomin' lot assailing you (!), let me leave you with John Betjeman's poem (or part of it) about 'Christmas': ‘...girls in slacks remember Dad, And is it true? And is it true, CELEBRATION By Sonia Bentzon The thick white candles
with their spires of flame Christmas Letter to Churches in the Southern Synod Dear Friends, Christmas is something we celebrate. And is there something to celebrate! At Ordinations and Inductions ministers of the Word and Sacrament are asked, “Do you believe that Jesus Christ, who was born of Mary is the gift of God's very self to the world?” That's what we celebrate at Christmas ... the gift of God's very self to the world. Those words move me deeply every time I put them to a minister. The way we celebrate Christmas is, of course, hotly debated. Too secular? Too commercial? Too drawn out? Where we were on holiday in Suffolk, Turkey Dinner bookings were being taken in August. Certainly it can feel as if Christmas is done to us in an unhelpful way, by everyone for whom, to be fair, Q4 is the only part of the year when they make the profit that balances the books. We can easily resist it, resent it, especially those of us who think we know the real reason for the season. Yet surely Christmas is something that is done to us, and for us ... and it's something we should do to and for each other. It's done to us in that the birth of Jesus is a vital part of the jig-saw of God's loving purposes. That mewling infant in Bethlehem is pivotal to God's gracious, it's-not-up-to-you dealing with us. Jesus is God being done to us. And in essence our celebrating of that is given its authenticity as we do Christmas to one another – making real something of God-with-us in the lives of our families, and perhaps even more importantly, in the lives of those who are aching for someone else's love in order to be more fully alive. The Christmas Day meal at church for people who otherwise would be on their own; the ‘six geese a-laying’ for a remote village in Africa; the charity Christmas Cards; the extra cheque for Cancer Research ... these are all ways - and there are millions of others - of doing Christmas to each other. And each of them proves it’s true that love came down at Christmas. In short, do unto others as you have been done unto. The Synod Officers - Graham Campling, Michael Davies, lan Fleming and Sue Henderson—and the Synod staff: Des and Hilary Colechin, Simon Harding, Martin Hayward, Catherine Kingdom, Guy Morfett, Janette Pollard, Bryan and Rosemary Shirley, Glenys Sibley, Peter Southcombe, Alison West and Nick White, together with Bethan and Jess, join me in wishing you all a Christmas marked by the joy of real giving and receiving. Yours sincerely Nigel Uden For those who remember or knew the late Revd. Kathleen Hendry: The Reverend
Kathleen Hendry As many of you will be aware, Kathleen Hendry died on 24 September, aged 101, after seventy six years of ordained ministry. She last addressed Assembly in 2006, saying that she hoped everyone else was as pleased to be there as she was.Having completed ministerial training at Lancashire College in Manchester in 1931, Kathleen served the following pastorates: Shaw 1932-38/1948-65; Clitheroe and Barrow 1966-75; with Newton-in-Bowland 1972-75; Purley 1975-83.This letter comes to make known the details of the Memorial Service, which will be held as follows: Tuesday 8 January 2008 at 2.00pmPurley United Reformed Church 906 Brighton Road, Purley, CR8 2LN The Moderator of the General Assembly, The Reverend Professor Stephen Orchard, will preside and The Reverend John Waller will be taking part. Any who would like to attend will be very welcome. There is some metered on-street parking; Purley station is about a five-minute walk away. May I ask you please to ensure that this information is shared with any you think would want to know. With good wishes. Nigel Uden ‘Carols by Candlelight’ – 16th December at 5.30 p.m. Our traditional service of carols and readings is being held again this year, and we give a warm welcome to all our friends from far and near to join us. The service will be followed by refreshments – and lots of conversation! – in Unity Hall. Commitment for
Life THE ADIVASIS. Part 2. Having realised the problems and lack of Government assistance suffered by the Adivasi people, plans had to be made. It was not easy for these shy people to accept the presence and questioning of strangers. For it was essential to find out wherein lay the real problems. Individual workers had to go in and talk to the leaders and gain their confidence. Having got some ideas, the organisers really wanted the people to think things out for themselves and suggest solutions. Sometimes a village council did exist; if not one was set up. Such councils have been vital to development. One of the most basic problems was lack of land on which to grow dry season crops. So a bank was set up in every village into which each family paid. This was very little at first; but it grew. Working with some 160 communities, more than 700 Adivasis now own their own land. They try to earn money in the wet season by making products from the forest, like baskets and bowls. They have always used the forests carefully; now they are being taught forest management. It is hoped to develop real village economies to take them through wet, dry and bad seasons. With better seeds that grow more quickly, they can raise two crops in a dry season. Many villages are now running their own banks. Children are a major part of the plans. It was soon found that most were under-nourished. While mothers were shown how to cook more nourishing meals, the children were given rations of a mixture of ground rice, daal, wheat and soya beans. The improvement was so obvious after three months that it was decided to continue it for another three months. Mothers had been told that they could take their children to government immunisation centres. Apart from their own reluctance, often the nurses would not touch them. So assistants are being trained to go out to the villages especially to do this. Meanwhile the villagers are shown what other government help they can get as they become more assured. Adivasi children often find it hard to adapt to government schools where other ethnic groups dominate. So the CCDB now run pre-school groups in the villages where the children become accustomed to being taught by a trained teacher. Many do very well, once given the opportunity, going on to further education and special training. But the general standard is very poor in many Bangladeshi schools especially in more remote areas where there are too few teachers. Families are more likely to send boys to school than girls, who until now have always taken a back seat. But this is being changed, with women being trained for many non-manual jobs where they can really make a difference. We saw how the changing climate and other natural features have made life worse for the Adivasis. When the winters become colder than they are used to, blankets are handed out, especially to the children. Problems of river control and the desire for more irrigation by richer farmers have led to a number of government schemes which have disadvantaged the Adivasis. The CCDB do their best to influence future projects and asks the government for help, especially where the Adivasis are actually displaced by these schemes. Drying up of delta tributaries and the lowering of ground water not only deprive the people of water, but may allow arsenic to seep into the wells. The CCDB's Disaster Preparedness Programme and Christian Aid's DflD-funded Building Disaster Resilient Communities Programme are helping to train other Christian Aid Partners to help communities become less vulnerable to increasingly variable climate conditions, and exposure to disaster. Bangladesh is a poor country with few resources and big problems. Christian Aid works in other areas besides with the Adivasis helping to build up and improve local economies. The Adivasis, at the bottom of the pile were some of the most hopeless with ever-deteriorating conditions. It is hoped that we can make a difference. COTE (Christian Outreach Trust for Epsom) Christmas Carol Concert St Barnabas Church , Temple Road, EpsomWednesday, 19th December 2007 at 8 p.m.Kingston and Malden Scout and Guide Band Whitehall Singers EMC Drama Group Presenter: Cindy Kent (of Premier Christian Radio) Ticket: £6 Available from Dovecote Christian Bookshop, 11 Ashley Road,
Epsom Getting Ready for your King an Advent quiet evening Tuesday 11 December at Hampton Hill United Reformed Church (35 High Street, Hampton Hill) The evening will give space to reflect on some of the themes of Advent using a variety of resources. There will be time for corporate worship and also personal reflection. Further details available from Please let Jenny know if you’re attending "Rebecca and Friends" Christmas Chamber Music Concert An evening of
seasonal music and carols in aid of Christian Aid and Great Ormond Street Hospital for Sick Children The United Reformed Church, Church Street, Epsom, KT17 4PW Saturday, 8th
December 2007 Entrance Free, Donations welcomed Advent Carol Service This month, for one month only, our normal Sunday evening Service for Advent Sunday is being replaced by our Advent Carol Service. Being the first Sunday of the month, it is still at Ewell, but please note this change: it will commence at 4 p.m. Pat is keen that Advent Carols should predominate in this service. We extend a warm welcome to everyone to join us in this special service. Lunchtime Carols at Epsom Once again, we are holding our Lunchtime Carols. This year it is being held on Thursday, 20th December, and will start at 1 p.m. This informal service is aimed at providing an oasis of calm away from the hectic busyness of this season for a short while. We hope that we can attract business people and other workers in the vicinity to what we are providing. Visitors are welcome to bring their lunches, and if last year is anything to go by, there will be ample mince pies and tea and coffee provided. Please come and make the service a really warm and welcoming occasion. CHRISTMAS AT EPSOM AND EWELL 2007 SUNDAY DECEMBER 2ND .........ADVENT CAROLS 4 P.M. AT EWELL FRIDAY DECEMBER 7TH.........CAROLS BY CANDLELIGHT IN THE YOUTH CENTRE 7-9 P.M. AT EWELL SATURDAY DECEMBER 8TH .......CONCERT - REBECCA AND FRIENDS 7.30 P.M. AT EPSOM SUNDAY DECEMBER 9TH ........TOY SERVICE 10.30 A.M.AT BOTH EPSOM AND EWELL WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 12TH........FELLOWSHIP AT 44, PARKLAWN AVE., EPSOM . 8 P.M. EWELL SATURDAY DECEMBER 15TH.......ADVENT WORKSHOP 1O A.M FOLLOWED BY CHRISTINGLE SERVICE AT 3 P.M. AT EWELL SUNDAY DECEMBER 16TH .......CAROLS BY CANDLELIGHT 5.30 P.M. AT EPSOM WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 19TH......DOVECOTE CAROL CONCERT 8 P.M. AT ST BARNABAS CHURCH, EPSOM. THURSDAY DECEMBER 20TH .......LUNCHTIME CAROLS 1 P.M. EPSOM MONDAY DECEMBER 24TH.......MIDNIGHT COMMUNION SERVICE 11.30 P.M. AT EWELL TUESDAY DECEMBER 25TH .......CHRISTMAS
MORNING WORSHIP 10 A.M. AT EPSOM WE HOPE YOU CAN JOIN US!! EPSOM AND
EWELL Advent Workshop Saturday, 15th December followed by a Christingle Service For Children aged 3-12 years To book, contact Viv Baker I asked the Lord to bless you as I prayed for you today. So when the road you're travelling on seems difficult at best, 12th Epsom
Guides Since returning to Guides in September, our numbers have increased to over thirty girls. So far this term the Guides have made smoothies, had a relaxation evening, a dance session run by three of the Guides and have completed a survey on make-up products. Recently we celebrated our Good Points. We looked at ‘One Thing We Were Good At’; smiling, maths, dancing and drawing were just some of the items we then celebrated during the meeting. Nearer Christmas we are having two evenings for making a wide variety of crafts, and an expert in card-making is visiting us to assist the Guides to make their own cards. We shall celebrate our last meeting with a party. My Assistant Guider, Amanda, is unfortunately on an Open University course until May – with tutorials on a Thursday evening. This leaves me on my own with over thirty girls and a parent rota. If you would like to help or know of someone who could help me on a permanent basis I would love to hear from them. 12th Epsom Brownie Guide
Pack A rather depleted number of Brownies dressed suitably for our Hallowe’en evening on 31st October when they made scary spiders, did some Hallowe’en puzzles and ate some suitable spooky refreshments. Several of the girls came late and others had to leave early because of ‘Trick or treating’. On 7th November the girls were invited to bring suitable board games to play throughout the evening. At the end of the evening our five newest recruits were enrolled. The following meeting the girls had fun playing with paper. They each made an origami jumping frog, a dancing finger puppet and a paper doily. On 21st November we started our Christmas activities and the girls coloured in calendars, decorated small Christmas stockings with fabric pens, and did their own Christmas pictures on some ready made jigsaw puzzles. Once again I have been given permission to take the Brownies carol singing at Epsom Station on Wednesday, 5th December from 5.30 p.m. until 6.30 p.m. so please be generous if you are passing through the station at that time. The Brownies and their leaders wish everyone an Happy Christmas and Peaceful New Year. Afternoon Fellowship Last Thursday we welcomed Rev Robert Blows with a delightful programme of music which he had selected, interspersed with his engaging anecdotes and stories relating to the composers. We were pleased to have Ewell friends with us. We shall meet on Thursday 13th December for what is always a delightful occasion "A Christmas Celebration", arranged by Barbara and Gwyneth. We take a break in January and February and re-assemble in March. (top) Evening Fellowship Sheila and George gave us an excellent evening in November when they showed their pictures, together with an interesting commentary of the holiday they spent with Sara, Simon, Abbie and Joel earlier this year - first at their home, just outside Perth and on holiday at Albany, in Australia. They also set up a table of interesting items and mementoes of their holiday, including a collection of most beautifully fashioned tiny shells found on the beaches of silver sand. On Monday 3rd December we shall have a "Christmas Video" presented by Gwyneth, followed by light refreshments. Into the New Year, Sheila and George will organise the "Beetle Drive" on Monday, 7th January.
Women’s Church Council We had a really good response for the November coffee morning, which was for The Royal Hospital Chelsea. As a result we raised £200 for the exciting building programme. Thank you all so much. As always in December, we have chosen a children's charity - ‘The Rainbow Trust’ that gives so much needed help to the children with terminal or life-threatening illnesses. Tuesday, 11th December between 10.30 and 12 noon we are hoping for another successful effort. Looking ahead to the New Year, Tuesday 8th January is the date. Another local charity will have our support – ‘The Queen Elizabeth Foundation’. Decoration of the Church: Due to several people who normally assist with decoration of the church being involved with the Advent Workshop at Ewell on our normal Decoration Day, our decorating will be done on Friday, 14th December. We would be very grateful if people could bring their offerings of greenery, etc. to the church between 10:00 and 12:00, when somebody will be in attendance to receive the material. The decoration itself will commence at 14:00, and we hope than ‘many hands will make light work’! Copy for the next issue should be with the Editor by 18th November for publication on 25th November, 2007 And Finally . . . Headlines of the Year - which may or may not have made it into the newsprint: Safety Experts Say School Bus Passengers Should Be Belted Survivor of Siamese Twins Joins Parents Two Ships Collide, One Dies Hospital is Sued by Seven Foot Doctors Typhoon Rips Through Cemetery; Hundreds Dead Red Tape Holds Up New Bridge New Study of Obesity Looks for Larger Test Group
And to prepare you for the Christmas Cracker jokes: "What athlete is never cold?" "A long jumper!"
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