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Newsletter for May 2007

 

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CRE at Sandown Park
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Editorial
Evening Fellowship
Ewell URC Gift Day
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Geoffrey Dunstan's Article
Help Required
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News of the Family
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PumpAid Story
Supper and Concert
Women's 
Church Council
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9th May 2007
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Last Month's Newsletter

Editorial                                                             
Alan Wood

One thing that seems to pervade some of the articles is the lack of support achieved by the social events that are arranged. The Breakfast, the Supper and Concert, the Coffee Morning, even the Evening Fellowship where the play-reading was arranged – they all seem to have plenty of room for lots more people, and I wonder why there are so many empty seats. Some reasons occur to me but for fear of upsetting people I won’t list them!

The trouble is that it is often the same few people arranging and supporting these events. So if you want to have a different event, please suggest it or even organise it – I’m sure you’ll get lots of help.

We really need to have events that will bring non-church-goers in, then at least we are tapping a new source of finance! Ideas, please?

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Christian Aid Fund-Raising Events 

In the March NewsLetter it was reported that the Coffee Morning in Unity Hall on 18th February had raised over £45, which got the fund-raising off to a good start.

The splendid breakfast, at ‘Phemie’s Diner’ on 25th March raised over £50, despite there not being many people there. Tom Rhind-Tutt, who was conducting our Family Worship that morning, wished that he had known about the breakfast, as he had just taken an 8 a.m. service, and a breakfast would have nicely filled the time – and his stomach!

   

The recent Supper and Concert on 21st April raised well over £300. So all in all, although I don’t have the accurate figures, we must be well on our way to £500. ‘Well Done, and Thank You’ to those people that have supported these efforts.

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A Pump Aid Story

There was a programme on the radio recently when people were talking about the pumps. One person was extolling the value of its simple construction, and said the advantage of this was that it could be maintained by the local handyman, and also said that there were too many machines which had been provided in Zimbabwe, which were too sophisticated to be repaired locally, in the event of their breaking down.

He also told about one school where a pump had been installed in the grounds for the school's needs. This was one of the type where the drive was provided by adaptation to an old bicycle, and pupils who arrived early got to ride on this to provide enough water for that day. However, large numbers of pupils began to arrive early, in order to get a turn on having a ride, causing water to be pumped up well in excess of requirements. A decision was then made to install a large tank, where the surplus water could be contained, and thus be available for the local villagers’ needs.

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News of the Family

Mary Hallifax and Sonia Bentzon are both in St Helier Hospital; both are in need of our love and prayers.

It was good to welcome Lynne in church on 15th April, after being confined to home for so long.

We hope Lily Moody is getting a little stronger. She is at home now.

Marjorie was in church with Ann recently. To Marjorie, and to Dorothy and Frank go our continuing love and prayerful concern.

Daphne was able to visit Peggy Smith recently, as Pat was visiting and invited Daphne along. Peggy was in good form and had received cards from Sheila and George. How quickly the time has passed: in little more than a week George and Sheila will be back home, with so much to tell us.

Friends will be pleased to know that little Sophie and her adoptive parents and sister are settling very happily together as a family. This was good timing really, as we hear that Pamela has broken a bone in her foot, which is rather cramping her style. Get well soon, Pamela.

      

 

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Dear Friends,

Do you recall the story of Naaman, the Assyrian army general who gets cured of leprosy by bathing in the river Jordan seven times? This rather puffed-up fellow nearly missed his chance for a cure because he couldn't believe that there could be such a simple solution for his problem. True, there aren't always simple solutions to problems, but often even a complicated solution has its basis in the basics. Take hygiene for instance, and think of its effect on the prevalence of disease. A little soap and clean water goes a long way.

Simple and cheap solutions aren't very popular in our world today. We often don't want to know about them. Naaman expected some deference to his stature, a cure befitting such an important person as himself, but what he got was a succession of slaves and servants and enemies sweet-talking him in to doing as Elisha asked and to bathe in the river Jordan. Just do it.

I know that there aren't easy solutions to many of the problems that affect us and our planet, but often there are simple ones. We should not worry if all we can do are simple things. There is no pill to cure loneliness and isolation, no electronic gadget that can repair broken relationships.

Only we can do that.

Pat

[I see that most people have not observed Pat's plea in last month's NewsLetter, so I'll repeat it here.  Next time I'll SHOUT!  Ed]

P.S.  Many of you have continued to sit up front in the church over the past few years.  Others, dare I say, have started to drift to the back again.  Shall we make an effort to sit in a more cohesive cluster, closer to the front?  Perhaps we can carry forward some of the things we enjoyed about worship in Unity Hall! 

Pat

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Where Are We Going?
Geoffrey Dunstan

‘If you're not part of the solution,' a 20th century adage says, 'you're part of the problem,’ and, you add, problems are generally true of life as well. One minute you're having your head pummelled in by your friend because you've been messing about with his wife, the next, you're being cut out of your car by the emergency services after a collision with a lorry. A minute after that an inexperienced junior medical bod Iets your fluid bag run dry, and you're being wheeled off to intensive care. This, at least, is life in the harsh universe of the Saturday evening programme, ‘Casualty’, on BBC1.

Like the programme, ‘Dixon of Dock Green’, ‘Casualty’ is a piece of social realism. At Holby City Hospital, contemporary debating points are raised with a terrifying relentlessness. Episodes have touched upon motherhood, suicide and mixed-race marriages. NHS staff would doubtless point out that this is a fairly routine working day, and in any case it all makes for gripping, if gloomy, peak-time entertainment.

Like ‘Casualty’, it raises the question, where are we going? Humanity, it seems, has always entertained the thought that this earthly life isn't all there is. We live our lives very much on the surface. But, now and then, we may catch a glimpse of phenomena which make us stop in our tracks and realize that there is more to our existence than we know.

Take, for example, the ‘out-of-body’ phenomenon. Here's a person who's been rushed to hospital unconscious and fighting for his life. While doctors try to save him, he has what is described as a life-changing experience. He finds himself floating from above and looking down upon himself. Then he sees a bright light and hears voices. Suddenly he's back in his body. ‘I don't know if I saw God, but what I do know is there's some kind of life for us after we die; and having seen it for myself, I'm no longer afraid of death.’ Life is, indeed, a profound mystery, as this person has said, but we can take heart from scripture:

‘My dear friends, we are now God's children,’ wrote John, ‘but it is not yet clear what we shall become.’ And, he added, ‘We know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him.’

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Supper and Concert - 21st April
Pamela Galliers

On Saturday, 21st April, a number of us joined together in Unity Hall for a Supper to celebrate St. George’s Day, in aid of Christian Aid. The hall was decorated with England flags, and the tables were set in blue and white with red carnations in white vases to give the finishing touch.

The meal, cooked by Phemie in her usual capable manner, was steak pie or vegetable lasagne served with potatoes, peas and carrots, followed by fresh fruit salad or raspberry mousse, all rounded off with tea or coffee. Thank you, Phemie and your helpers Joan, Bettie and Val, for a lovely meal.

The meal was followed by a delightful concert given by Rebecca at the piano and her sister Lydia who sang some songs to Rebecca’s accompaniments. Rebecca played a very mixed choice of pieces, including some Chopin preludes, the first movement from Beethoven’s ‘Moonlight’ Sonata, and the ‘Golliwog’s Cakewalk’ by Debussy. It was a lovely concert from two very talented young ladies, which brought the evening to a very pleasant close.

One new feature, much appreciated, was being able to see Rebecca’s hands on the keyboard, by means of a suitably positioned camcorder, the data projector and screen. This gave added pleasure to many of those that attended.

An added bonus for Joseph and I was that we were given the rest of the lasagne and mousse to bring home – these were much enjoyed!

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Bangladesh Update—'Coming Into The Light' 
Phyl Cary

Fifteen years ago Alaya lived in a hut and, as a woman, considered to have little worth beyond doing the housework. Today Alaya is a very different person.

“I joined the literacy classes of the CCDB (the Christian Commission in Bangladesh,” she says “and now I can read and write.” I always wanted to send my children to school, because if they are educated they will understand the world. My first aim was to be able to educate my children”.

Not only can Alaya now read and write, she has also trained as a traditional birth attendant, set up a social organisation against child marriages and become an HIV and Aids trainer. This has all been made possible through the Christian Commission in Bangladesh’s Participatory Rural Department Programme, which Commitment for Life supports. Alaya has even set up a successful agriculture and transport business with the help of CCDB loans.

“Fifteen years ago I ate rice once a day. Now I eat it three times a day. I could not afford fish or chicken before. Now I can”.

Now, sitting in her mango and coconut orchard, surrounded by her large and healthy family, Alaya says that the thing she is most grateful for is for her children to be educated well. And they have been. The youngest has just achieved a Master’s Degree in political science.

Today, Alaya runs a successful farm and a transport business thanks to help and training she had received from the CCDB.

“I pray that the CCDB can extend their work into places that they have not yet reached, to help women who are still in the dark, so that they can come into the light like me”

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Events for the Easter Period

The Good Friday Procession of Witness, and Service in the High Street

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The CRE visits Sandown Park again

Don't forget this annual event - 15th-18th May.

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Help Required

The Guide Company attached to Epsom Methodist Church is in need of storage space for their camping equipment during the building work currently going on in Ashley Road. If anyone has an empty garage which they can release for a few months, would they please contact Alan Wood.

EMC are also advertising the Summer Holiday Week for children, entitled SWAP (Summer Worship and Praise) to be held on 20th-24th August at St Barnabas Church (due to rebuilding works at EMC). If anybody wants further details, these are available on the EMC website at http://swap.emc.org.uk, or contact Alan Wood.       

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EWELL UNITED REFORMED CHURCH

GIFT DAY AND CHURCH ANNIVERSARY

SATURDAY 12TH  2PM - 4PM

AFTERNOON TEA WITH MUSICAL ENTERTAINMENT 
FROM MALCOLM AND DENNIS

SALES TABLES - CAKES, PLANTS AND BRIC-A-BRAC

SUNDAY 13TH MAY, 10.30AM

MORNING WORSHIP,

COME ALONG AND LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR HERITAGE

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Easter Monday Stroll 
Valerie Wood

A small group of us from both the Epsom and Ewell churches met at a car park on Flanchford Road, Reigate Heath, on a very warm and sunny Easter Monday morning and set out for a walk over the Heath. 

It was a very pleasant walk, not too arduous, and it was fun identifying the local flora along the way. Our route took us to the west and south through part of Reigate Heath Golf Club, and along bridle ways for about four miles. There were several stiles which were climbed in a variety of ways, depending on the climber. We finished our circular tour back at the car park after about two hours, and then some of the party remained to have a picnic lunch together.

It will be our turn to choose the route for next year: if anybody has any suggestion for a favourite walk, please let us know.

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An Unusual Paragraph

Did you discover what was unusual about it? I know that two people did. One replied in like vein:

‘It is a paragraph to fox a body trying to work out cryptic communications’.

The second replied with a large capital ‘E’ cut out of a piece of A5 paper, with the comment that ‘ one big E makes up for all the little ‘e’s that were missing’.

The clue on page 20 referred you to a story of over 50,000 words that, like our ‘Unusual Paragraph’, did not contain a single letter ‘e’.

The reason Mr Ernest Vincent Wright gave for writing his story, Gadsby’, was that: "As the vowel E is used more than five times oftener than any other letter, this story was written, not through any attempt to attain literary merit, but due to a somewhat balky nature, caused by hearing it so constantly claimed that "it can’t be done; for you cannot say anything at all without using E, and make smooth continuity, with perfectly grammatical construction—" so ‘twas said." So off he went and did it!

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FORTHCOMING DATES #1

Saturday, 9th June

BARBECUE

In Unity Hall and Garden

 

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        FORTHCOMING DATES #2

Saturday, 14th July

CREAM TEA

In Church Foyer and Forecourt

Book these dates - more details later

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Flowers for May

 

6th May Peggy Wilson

13th May TBA

20th May Marjorie Thomson

27th May TBA

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Christian Aid Collection

Epsom and Ewell Borough Council has given permission for a street collection in Epsom on Saturday, 19th May, and volunteers will be out in force from 10:00 to 16:00. Each church will be collecting for one hour – rota yet to be arranged – and we have two people who have volunteered. Ideally, one more would be required, so if anybody feels able to spend an hour in a good cause, please speak to Gwyneth or Bettie.

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12th Epsom Brownie Guide Pack 
Valerie Wood

At our last meeting before Easter, the Brownies made Easter cards and chocolate nests containing mini eggs, painted plastic eggs and made cardboard baskets in which to put everything. It was ‘Something on a Stick Day’ and so each Brownie made either a rabbit or chick puppet on a stick.

During the Easter break several of our Brownies attended the Easter Extravaganza organised by Spring Downs District.

Our first meeting after Easter was on Pet owners’ Day, and the Brownies brought in pictures of their pets and told us about them. They then made a collage of their pet or an animal they would like to have as a pet.

Several of our girls were away on a school residential trip on 25th April, but we still had plenty of girls there as we held a ‘bring a friend’ evening. We had five visitors and the evening was spent doing puzzles in pairs, having refreshments and making friendship bracelets for each other.

The number of girls in our Pack has gone down just lately and we are hoping that the ‘bring a friend’ idea will lead to a few more girls joining the Brownies.

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Monday Club 
Valerie Wood

The activities for the last meeting before Easter were to paint wooden dancing chicks and bunnies, and to colour and make mini Easter gift bags in which to carry them.

Our first meeting after Easter was on St. George’s Day, and the children each made a badge with a picture of red rose. They also painted plastic plant pots and planted sunflower seeds.

Only three children came to the club last Monday, and they are all members of the same family who will be moving away in the summer, so please advertise this club among any young children that you know.

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Afternoon Fellowship 
Daphne Dawe

We were able to hold our planned extra meeting on 12th April, when Phyl Cary presented her illustrated talk, ‘Around the British Isles’. This was very much enjoyed by the few people that managed to attend. Thank you, Phyl.

Our ‘At Home’ afternoon took place last Thursday, 26th April, when we welcomed Friends from some of the local fellowships. It was a pleasure to have our Minister, Pat, with us to relate part two of ‘Her Story’, which was most interesting and informative; thank you, Pat. To conclude, an appetising afternoon tea was served.

The last meeting of the session – our AGM – will be on Thursday, 24th May.

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Evening Fellowship
Daphne Dawe

In April the Drama Group entertained with a play reading of ‘Mother’s Day’, by JB Priestley.  It was very well received and enjoyed by those able to be present.  At some future date, if possible, we would like the Drama Group to repeat their performance, and thank you to Gwyneth and all involved.

For our next meeting, on 14th May at 8 p.m., Rev. Robert Blows will be with us, presenting ‘More of My Music’. It is always a delightful occasion.

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Women’s Church Council 
Daphne Dawe

The Brigitte Trust, locally based in Dorking, was our chosen charity for April. Although a number of regular friends were unable to be with us, with generous donations and support we were able to send £100 for their vital, caring work.

On 8th May our effort will be for The Salvation Army. Come along any time between 10:30 and 12:00. We are all aware of the ongoing work of offering new life and new hope to many desperate and vulnerable people. Do come and join us for a coffee and a chat, thus demonstrating your love and compassion for others.

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Next Issue

Copy for the next issue should be with the Editor by 20th May for publication on 27th May 2007.  

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And Finally . . .   

What do you call a fly with no wings?  A walk!

Three Londoners, each hard of hearing:-
First: Is this Wembley?
Second: No, it's Thursday.
Third: So am I.  Let's go and get a drink!

And one to ponder:

The church is not a yachting club, but a fleet of fishing boats.

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