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United Reformed ChurchNewsletter for January 2007 |
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Alan Wood First of all, may I welcome two new contributors, both of whom have submitted their first articles to this august journal. All I need now is for a few more of you to put pen to paper and imitate them. As Sheila Stredwick says, why not make it your New year’s resolution? Did you enjoy the Nativity Play? Kathleen has written a report about it, and thank you for that, Kathleen, but unusually I have not been able to include any photographs. I apologise for this, as both Valerie and I had forgotten our cameras. However, a Brownie dad took some photographs for me – unfortunately, he hasn’t sent them to me. I just hope that he reads this and sends them on; if he does, then I’ll include some next month. You will recall my comments last month about a chap sleeping rough around the church, and I asked what others would have done about him. I have received no suggestions – don’t people think about what I write? – but I went delving in the garage and came up with an old sleeping mat and two old sleeping bags, all definitely surplus to requirements. These are now down at the church for the use of anyone who needs them. The only trouble is that there is rarely anybody at church late in the evening – so how do the needy get the sleeping bags? My suggestion is that a small garden storage container be bought and tucked away somewhere inconspicuous, around the side of the church, to contain the sleeping bags. Hopefully a container would discourage various blankets and bags being folded up and left in the porch on Arthur’s Seat during the day. Incidentally, I note that 28 January is Homelessness Sunday, an annual event organised by CHAS, the Churches’ National Housing Coalition and the Scottish Churches Housing Agency. Now it only remains for me to wish all my readers a Happy and Healthy New year for 2007. We give our sympathy and love to Pat on the loss of her father in Canada. We appreciate her difficulties being so far away from her parents at such a busy time. Lily Moody has been home for a couple of weeks, improving all the time, and was able to spend Christmas with the family in Sussex. It was good to see Marjorie and Ann worshipping with us in December. Sonia and Dorothy appreciated contact from friends over Christmas. Mary has been in hospital again and we hope for better things for her. Phyllis Thurston was unexpectedly admitted to Epsom General Hospital for a few days, but she is now home again and everything is now under control. Phil Castle is making a slow, but steady recovery; George and Sheila are going to see Phil and Sue for the weekend. We wish all our readers a happy and healthy New Year. ------------------------------ A Message from Pat I would like to thank everyone for your support during the past few weeks following the death of my father. Your cards and phone calls and kind words were very much appreciated. Thanks to all who took over when I was away in November and in December, leading services and chairing meetings. Thank you also for your Christmas wishes and cards. (top)Frederick Buechner tells about a time when he was searching for.... something, God perhaps. What happened as he sat under a tree was that two branches knocked together. It doesn’t sound like much but it was enough to divide time forever for Buechner into what came before that experience and what came after it. It isn’t much to go on, is it? I read once about someone who thanked the minister for the inspiring sermon he had just preached. When asked what it was that had touched him, the person said that it was when the minister had said, now that is the end of part one, here is the second part, and he realized that one part of his own life had come to an end and it was time to start the next part. Not much to go on, though, is it? Matthew says that the Magi noticed a new star in the sky, one among the billions and billions that are there, a star that wouldn't have been noticed at all unless you were looking for it. Not much to go on, is it? And then when they finally found the child, it was just a baby, a little boy. Not much to go on. But they found him because they were looking, and because there was someone to be found. Our search for God, for what is holy in the world, is often like this. We have to look and listen, and know that there is something to be found. And most likely it will not be in the great big organ peals of excitement and celebration, but more likely in the smile of a stranger or a hand placed in ours, laughter at a shared joke, the flickering light of a candle, a letter from a friend, a robin. Not much to go on, is it? Often we start a new year with great expectations of what we will accomplish, the changes we will make, the weight we will lose, and good on you if you succeed! But in your search for whatever makes life meaningful and holy, remember to keep on looking, and remember to look in that which is ordinary and mundane, the routines of life, worship, work..... You might be surprised. Have a blessed 2007! Pat (top)Secretary’s
Letter
So Christmas is all over; did you enjoy it? We did. Very early on Christmas morning after the midnight communion we had a web-cam conversation with the family in Australia. It seemed very strange singing Jingle Bells with them at 1a.m. in the morning; of course, it was about 9.30 a.m. over there. Our granddaughter was very pleased to show us her gifts from us and Father Christmas, who incidentally had left “a terrible mess in her bedroom and in the garden, just as bad as in England!” Joel looked on wearing his Elf hat and grinning at the right time. We had to end the conversation at 1.30 a.m. in case we were still awake when Father Christmas came! Mind you, we must have been asleep because we didn’t hear him. If you think I have entered my second childhood, you obviously did not attend the Service on Christmas Eve when Alan Wood told us about believing in Santa Clause. Jesus could be substituted for Santa in the piece Alan read, and it made me think how difficult it is to believe when you cannot see physical proof. We all need a little more faith to trust in things we cannot see or touch.
On Boxing morning we went to see some friends in Dorking, went for a walk to Denbies and back to lunch, then back home as we entertained ten to supper. It was super to catch up with friends that we had not seen for a while. It made me think we should have Christmas more than once a year, but perhaps it is not quite such a good idea!
Going back to the pre-Christmas celebrations that I was involved in, (which I think was most of them) here are a few of my thoughts. It seems ages ago now that we attended the Toddlers’ Party! I shall remember Father Christmas picking up Sophie and the big smile on her face as she stared at him; there was the energy of Rebecca and her friends who entertained with a musical concert; the many children who attended the Advent Workshop who were so eager to take part in all the crafts (I hope there were not too many glasses broken on Christmas Day with the pop-up footballs that were put in the crackers they made); the COTE Carol Concert at St. Joseph’s Church when Rev. Nigel Uden entertained us with some very different aspects of Christmas (I didn’t know he had such talent!); the Candlelight Carol Service which never fails to have such a lovely atmosphere – in the unfortunate absence of Pat, a few of us from Epsom and Ewell arranged the Service, so I was a little nervous about it proceeding without a hitch, but I need not have worried, thanks to all those who took part. Then there was the mountain of mince-pies that Phemie bought for us, but they have all been eaten, so the attendance at all these events must have been fairly good.
Then on Christmas Eve we were again without a Minister as Pat was at Ewell; we had considered cancelling the Service as so many folk were away, but that was not really acceptable, so Alan and I said we would have a shot at it. It gave me a really warm feeling when so many folk said afterwards that they were glad they had made the effort to come; and then we finished up the mince pies!
The 11.30 p.m. service is always special; this year we all lit night-lights, placed them together and thought of those who needed our prayers and thoughts. After the bustle of the previous days, at last the peace and joy of Christmas was there in the quiet and candlelight. I began with Christmas Eve and have now come a full circle. Now we look forward to 2007. Who knows what it will bring? I would like to wish you all a happy, peaceful and healthy New Year. My hope for the New Year is that we as a congregation are responsive to whatever God has in store for us in 2007. Because God was there Advent – the family preparing for Christmas: What is it? Where is it? In the Good Book. There’s a
Bible somewhere! She went to draw water at the well, and met an angel
there, Joseph thought to put her quietly away. Her time was drawing near. An edict from Rome went out. Cold and sleepy, no room at the inn; just a stable; it
was warm. How often in our own lives we know his care. Look back, and realise that we are not alone, because God cares, and answers our prayers always the way that is best for us. Droughts and
Mini-Skirts Time was, some years ago, when we used to be told that drought was due to women wearing mini-skirts, and this was God's way of showing his displeasure at our lewd disregard for the modesty he demanded of all his creatures – no matter that Adam and Eve got away with a mere figleaf! Nowadays droughts, despite mini-skirts, are, increasingly, a common experience – remember last summer? We're asked not to use hosepipes on our garden plants or to wash our cars. But whether the lack of rain is due to one's misdeeds is debatable. It's probably got more to do with global-warming than anything else. Be that as it may, the Old Testament prophet, Ezekiel, saw that, in God's eyes, each individual must bear the consequences of his own wrongdoing. It would, he said, be that ‘the fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge’. Every now and again, it's good to be reminded that, despite all the gloom around us. God still has good in store for us. When Jesus performed his miracle of changing water into wine at a wedding reception in Cana, the master of ceremonies complimented the host on keeping the best wine until last. Imagine his aside to the waiters: ‘All the other cheapskates serve the best wine first, and then dish up the plonk when our taste-buds have been dulled'. Let that be a picture for us as we seek to live close to God in this New Year: the best is still to come. For this is God's world, and we haven't begun to exhaust its riches. Droughts there may be. Economic ups and downs will still have to be endured. But with God, the best is yet to come. God doesn't delight in seeing any part of his creation suffer. Old Zeke (I imagine that's how the prophet might have been known to his friends) was right: ‘If the wicked man gives up his evil ways, that man shall live’. Let's try, in this New Year, to wipe the slate clean where we can, and try and keep it that way with Jesus. So all the best for 2007! RESOLUTIONS At this time of the year many of us think of New Year Resolutions. The obvious one for me would be to try to be more tidy. That, though, is something I ought to be thinking about all the time, not just at the New Year. But then, why just a yearly resolution. Why not a monthly, weekly or even a daily one? Perhaps a resolution could be made at the time of the Harvest Festival, and, if kept, be offered to God as a thanksgiving when the next Festival comes round. And why should resolutions necessarily be of the more unpleasant kind? Why not resolve to stay in bed a few minutes longer each morning, or to enjoy oneself a bit more, or, as the poet said, take time to 'stand and stare'. We might need these things. Or perhaps we could even extend our resolutions a little. For example, a resolution to be more generous in our giving could include being more generous with our smiles. Now let me tell you something. Alan asked me if I could write something for the Newsletter, and this is the result. If each of us could resolve to write something at least once during the coming year, how much easier life would be for him! “IT’S A CRACKER!” The Brownies presented “It’s a Cracker!”, a lively musical dramatisation of the nativity, during the morning service on Sunday 10 December. As a prologue to the play, Joseph Galliers made a guest appearance in his veteran role as Grandad, recalling and epitomising the pleasures of Christmas past, accompanied by his stage Granddaughter, whose dynamic presence and dancing provided a contrasting attraction in Christmas present. The main action was performed to a pre-recorded soundtrack, but the young actors brought the story to life with their convincing mime and energetic dancing. The Shepherds responded to the ‘Good news’, proclaimed by the Angels, then went running, skipping and dancing round the church. The black and white sheep were responsive too. The sound may have been pre-recorded, but the action was enhanced by some spontaneous elements. There was interaction between heavenly and human beings, as the Angels peered precariously over the pulpit to watch the entry of the Three Kings with their camels. There was audience participation too. One member of the audience, noticing that the most important character in the nativity story had only a passive, silent part, showed admirable ingenuity – and lung power – in improvising some additional material for the Baby Jesus. Mary and Joseph were soon made aware of the real life experience of parenthood. The cast showed talent and commitment in their performance. I hope we will see them again. Flowers in the Church Once again this year, many, many thanks to all the kind members and friends who have helped to make the church more attractive by supplying flowers week by week or who have made donations to the Flower Fund. A few flowers always make such a difference.
A new list will be put up for next year. Some dates are always more popular than others, so sign up early for your special dates.
Thanks Whilst reading the December 2006 NewsLetter I noticed a suggestion from Alan Wood that maybe people would like to contribute a few words to the next edition. A godsend for me personally, to be able to say a big THANK YOU to everyone at church for making me feel so welcome since I first came to a service in the summer. Your welcoming smiles, friendly words, handshakes and caring attitude have amazed me. I have difficulty in remembering all your names, but to all of you, “Thank you very much for making me feel so welcome”. To an in-comer from the north Wales borders your welcome has enriched my life in Epsom. Pump Aid. I have now received the 50% rebate from Alan’s Sponsored Cycle Ride, amounting to £152.50. Donations received at the Lunchtime Carol Service amounted to £41.70, so we are now over the £1000 target even without the amount raised at the Kindergarten Fund-Raising Autumn Fair; the account for this has not yet been finalised, so cannot yet be included. The Ultimate P.C. Greetings Card—received by email Subject: Seasons Greetings Anon.
The Week of Prayer for Christian Unity This is a worldwide movement of Christians of many denominations, languages, races and cultures, who are engaged in praying and working for the unity of Christians in the service of the wider redemption, unity and peace of all peoples. Every year the dates are the same, 18 to 25 January, regardless of the days of the week. Praying for unity does not involve prayer for any specific schemes for unity. It is about being faithful to the prayer of Jesus Christ, as seen in John 17, 'that they may be one'. The verse chosen for 2007 is: ‘He even makes the deaf to hear and the mute to speak’. The Bible reading is Mark 7:31–37. Robert Burns Last year I promised you another excerpt from the book, ’Great Thoughts from Master Minds’, given to my Grandfather, the Rev. Ebenezer, on the occasion of his wedding in July 1899. The promised excerpt was to be Longfellow’s poem on Robert Burns, and as it would appear that we are not having a Burns’ Supper this year, I offer this poem in its place.
I SEE amid the fields of Ayr
So clear we know not if it is The laverock's song we hear or his,
For him the ploughing of those fields
Songs flush with purple bloom the rye ; The plover's call, the curlew's cry,
Touched by his hand, the wayside weed Becomes a flower; the lowliest reed
Is clothed with beauty; gorse and grass And heather, where his footsteps pass,
He sings of love, whose flame illumes The darkness of lone cottage rooms ;
The treacherous under-tow and stress Of wayward passions, and no less The keen remorse. At moments, wrestling with his fate, His voice is harsh, but not with hate;
Above the tavern door lets fall Its bitter leaf, its drop of gall,
But still the burden of his song Is love of right, disdain of wrong;
Are Manhood, Freedom, Brotherhood ; Its discords but an interlude
And then to die so young, and leave Unfinished what he might achieve!
Is this than wandering up and down, An old man, in a country town,
For now he haunts his native land As an immortal youth; his hand
He sits beside each ingle-nook; His voice is in each rushing brook,
His presence haunts this room to-night, A form of mingled mist and light,
Welcome, beneath this roof of mine! Welcome! this vacant chair is thine!
LONGFELLOW
The first Church Meeting of the New Year is to be held on 17th January, at 20:00 in the Longhurst Room. 12th Epsom Brownie Guide
Pack At their meeting in the last week of November, the girls were very busy getting ready for Christmas, making Christmas cards, crackers, advent calendars and decorations. On the last meeting of this term they sang Christmas carols for one hour at Epsom station. This year they managed to raise a grand total of £214 for the Shooting Star Hospice. Afterwards they walked back to the Longhurst Room where they saw a video of ‘The Snowman’, had some refreshments and received their Christmas cards and presents.
We were very pleased that several of the Brownies took part in the Nativity Musical; ‘It’s a Cracker’, on Toy Sunday. They all did very well and they will be earning their Entertainers badges. Brownies will resume meeting in the New Year on Wednesday, 10th January. Everyone at 12th Epsom Brownies wish you a very Happy and Peaceful New Year. Monday Club The last few weeks of the term were spent getting ready for Christmas. The activities included making Advent calendars, 2007 calendars, Christmas cards, crackers and decorations. At our last meeting before Christmas they had party food and received their cards and presents. We were very sorry that Matthew has decided that he will not be coming anymore, he has been with us since Anchor Boys times and we shall miss him. All of us at Monday Club wish the readers of the Newsletter a very Joyful New Year. (top) Evening Fellowship On 8th January we shall have the next in our hilarious series of Beetle Drives. This will be at 20:00 in the Longhurst Room, and will be followed by light refreshments.
Women’s Church Council Please note that, due to outside influences, we have had to alter the date of the January Coffee Morning from the second Tuesday to the third Tuesday, i.e. 16th January. The time will be the same, i.e. 10:30/12:00. This month we will be raising funds for the Epsom Hospital Equipment Fund. We are very pleased to announce that the December Coffee morning raised £180 for the Shooting Star Children’s Hospice. Thanks to those who helped with the decoration of the church. And we should like to advise you that over 75 friends, both near and far, were contacted by members of the WCC over the Christmas period.
Copy for the next issue should be with the Editor by 21st January for publication on 28th January 2007. And Finally . . . The teacher said: “Stand up all the children who want to go to heaven.” They all stood up except Jack. “Don’t you want to go to heaven, Jack?” “Not yet, Miss,” said Jack. ------------------------------ If you have a lot of tension and you get a headache, do what it says on the aspirin bottle: Take two and keep away from children. ------------------------------ Peter was driving down the street in considerable agitation because he had an important meeting and couldn't find a parking place. Looking up toward heaven, he said: "Lord, take pity on me. If you find me a parking place I will go to church every Sunday for the rest of my life and give up the booze." Miraculously, just then a parking place appeared. Peter looked up again and said, "Never mind, Lord. I found one." ------------------------------ |
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