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Graham Life
since Thorpe Grammar
Having
fitted into the "I am not going to university" set at school and
having been written off by the then head of sixth form as an annoyance that
would dent the quest for the ultimate university statistics, I entered the
world of work with healthy optimism and ambition. My claim to fame being the
first to fail A-Level Physics at the school. I blame the distraction of the
girls in the lower year who used to have their games period at the same time
as the physics lesson.. We were also the first year to study Commerce due to
the class being unable to master French. With this background the only option
was a job in finance and as such I decided a job as an international insurance
broker sounded slightly more exciting than an accountant. I joined Bland Payne
which latter became Sedgwick, and more recently has been taken over and known
as Marsh Ltd. It is here I have stayed despite sojourns in London and a
sabbatical for 8 weeks in the USA. After all Norwich is the graveyard of
ambition or is it the quality of the life here?
I
am now an Assistant Vice President of the Marine and Energy division heading
the Protection and Indemnity team. After school I did embark on some
professional exams and scraped by to eventually become a Fellow of The
Chartered Insurance Institute. The first to achieve this in Marine outside of
London - what fame! I was also active as chairman of the Young CII (Chartered
Insurance Institute) and saw this as a route for many extended lunches and
getting to know other hardened business drinkers within Norwich. This I have
followed through to the current time having been a graduate of the third
Norwich Common Purpose in Norwich in 1999 and more recently in the City Centre
network and vision for Norwich group. One long lunch after another. During
this hard struggle I have become quite knowledgeable on the subject of fine
wine and real ale. Currently my role has seen many changes and most recently
the recruitment of many new staff at Norwich as work has been moved here from
London. Whilst work is challenging it is rewarding and does involve travelling
as required.
I
am married to Michelle and have two children Hannah and Aaron, aged 7 and 5
respectively. In our quest for the right family home we have travelled from
Lower Thorpe to Sprowston and now reside at Thorpe End. The vast distance
travelled since those school days I am sure will be hard for many to
understand!
The
"Gang" or "Lads" still meet on a Tuesday night and gather
once a quarter for our "Men behaving very badly" sessions. One thing
that Thorpe Grammar did was to teach the value of friends above material and
financial gains. It is not these that you look back on but the memories of the
years that seem to have flown by. Friendship that sees you through bad and
good times, highs and lows, happy and sad. When I say to work colleagues and
other friends that I have a group of friends that I have known and see
regularly after 25 years they cannot relate to it.
I
hope this website gives all who view a feeling and insight into this group,
out background, our memories but more importantly share in our future. Last
of Summer Wine may well be repeated but based in Norwich. Is there a Nora
Batty out there somewhere?
An early seduction technique.
Graham, back row second from left.
I'm sure Graham has an explanation, but would you believe it.
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Site first published march 2001 To contact us with your own fortyodd experiences / school photos or items or any other stuff for our pages please contact me at Ta!
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