Henna
(Mehndi) is part and parcel of a woman's life especially
during festivals and weddings. The role of henna goes much
beyond
cosmetic
and aesthetic value. Henna has a deeper meaning to the
women.
The night
before a wedding is known as the 'Night of Henna (Mehndi)
when
the bride's hands
and feet are decorated in elaborate
floral and traditional designs.
On the
henna night, relatives and friends (married as well as
unmarried) of the bride gather
at the bride's house. While
henna is being applied the bride
is enlightened about the mysteries of married life. Many
a folks songs are woven
around henna nights signifying the
departure of the bride to her husband's house and thus
beginning an important stage of woman's life.
There
are many stories about the longevity of henna on the bride's
hand. It is said that if
the henna lasts longer on the bride's hands it
indicates
that the bride is treated well at her in-laws' place,
sparing her from the household chores, at least on the
first few
days of her married life. The bride's mother feels a sense
of relief when the daughter visits her few days after
the wedding and still able to see the
henna design on her daughter's
palm. 
In some
regions of India henna paste is also used to stain the
bridegroom's palms. Because
the deep red left on the skin when the
dried past is
washed off is the colour that symbolises the deep love
between the
husband and wife.
Girls
and women of all ages use henna. It especially signifies
married women. Widows generally
do not apply henna on their hands.