I do what I do because it is the way that I love.

Sex is a language. It’s how I express myself when the words no longer are up to the task of expressing the intensity of feeling.

Around 2000 someone I knew admitted to being a submissive female. I had no idea what she meant but she pointed me in the direction of some reading and it was a revelation. I soon discovered that all my darkest deepest desires could find their reflection in the real world and real people.

Since then I have discovered much about myself. BDSM and my dominant side has not been about acquiring tricks and skills, it’s been about letting go of behavioural patterns that were adopted to fit in with convention. It’s been about uncovering a person within that was a long time buried.

Conventional wisdom is often more about convention than wisdom -- Marcus Strapp

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