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First Time was first class

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It works for me

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FIRST TIME WAS FIRST CLASS
The first time I ever answered an ad on the net, I was nervous. But there he was, a guy who sounded just right, not a kid but someone with some experience and someone who fitted sexually into my idea of what I wanted. And what did I want ?

 Well, I'm from India, South India in fact and I'm over here in England working on computers. I live with some relatives so taking a guy home is out and I'm not too sure of myself in pubs or bars. Every day in the street I look at local white guys and every now and then I see one who just appeals to me and starts that tingling feeling down below. Each night I run pictures of some of the guys through my head and imagine they are with me in my small room lying back, stripped and mine to use as I wish. I had guys back home of course and always went for the more passive ones and I did occasional meet up with a European tourist, a suprising number of whom seemed to be up for it.

Billy looked great when he came into the pub. His real name was William but he prefered Billy. he came straight over to me and shook hands. He dressed simply, white T, and denim which bulged nicely at the front and curved perfectly at the back. As soon as I saw him I hardened and just hoped that this masculine looking guy lived up to his profile on the net.

A lot of white guys seem to like to play an active role with Asians, especially smaller guys like me. But I'm not small where it matters and I just love beong on top of a white guy, larger than I am seeing his face as I use every trick I know to give us both pleasure.

He was a bit nervous but soon relaxed. He told me he had a flat not far away and after half an hour in which time I was feeling so randy I couldn't wait any longer, I just asked him straight out to take me back with him.

His flat was smart and the bedroom large with mirrors alongside the bed. I think I took him by suprise as I took the initiative and stripped him before he could say a word. He was circumcised, unusual for an English guy, but he was a fairly mature guy and in my experience they often have nicer dicks. 

I stripped and I think I suprised him by the size of my equipment. I fed it into his mouth and took his into my mouth. I was so excited that I had to keep stopping myself from coming but after a few minutes just as I was preparing to start the serious business, I came, shooting all over the hairs of his chest. I could not stop myself.

He looked a bit disappointed but as I collapsed on top of him and felt the wetness squeezed onto our bodies, I whispered to him 'Don't worry, I'm a young guy and it won't be long before I'm ready to go again and this time it will be a long session' 

Fifteen minutes later I gave him what he described later as one of the best sessions he had had recently. I love taking my time, changing positions, going slowly then fast, twisting it around and building up to my second climax. This time he came as well hitting my chest with his sweet liquid leaving the dark skin spattered with white flecks.

We showered, had coffee and before I left I had one more session.
I don't know if I will see him again. Sex is like that. Sometimes the best sessions are hard to repeat and best kept as memories. The chase, the unknown factor adds excitement.

He rang me a couple of times and we haven't met again yet but maybe after a few months, I see him again. I did enjoy our meeting and a couple of guys I've met through the net since didn't live up to expectation as much as he did. 

I go back to India in ten months time as well so I want to get as much sexual fun as I can before then so perhaps I'll ring him tonight when I finish this story. Just writing it makes me feel randy and ready to go and I know I will enjoy myself. I think I'll come first though before I go so the first session isn't wasted. And this time I don't want to just stay in the bedroom, I think the kitchen floor would be eciting or in the shower. Sorry got to go, nature calls.


LAPTOP SAVES THE DAY
Perhaps it's me but I lways though guys who met other guys through contact ads were sad bastards, too ugly to get sex any other way. Then my firm posted me to North Wales and there was no gay scene at all only one small back bar full of, well sad bastards.
For an energetic young guy from the smoke, I just got more and more frustrated and although I did make a few trips into Manchester and did have some quickies, I really like sex in comfort and without a clock ticking away.
My Company had given me a decent room in a hotel so I had a place and I eventually started to play around with my laptop searching the contact sites.
To cut a long story short I found the most delicious British born Asian guy living less than half a mile from where I was staying. Within minutes of meeting, we knew it was going to work. I'd never had an asian guy before and the smoothness of his dark skin really turned me on. Afterwards, he said he felt the same about my skin so I suppose it was a case of opposites attracting.
Now he visits two or three times a week. We have great sessions and with both of us being versatile, it's lots of fun.
I go back to London soon and he plans to follow me. Who knows, the sexless fields of North Wales could be the best thing that ever happened to me plus my laptop

PERFECT !

I got a reply to my contact ad and I normally won't meet a guy without seeing a photo but I did give this guy, who was Pakistani, my mobile number and one evening he phoned and sounded so pleasant I thought what the hell and invited him round.

When he arrived, I couldn't believe my eyes, he was beautiful, shaved head, compact but well built body and the most sexy eyes.Just what I needed

He didn't want to waste time in small talk so we went straight into the bedroom and he stripped off down to a small white cotton thong inside which he was already as hard as a rock.

I stripped as well and within minutes we were rolling around enjoying really good physical contact until he reached over to the side of the bed where I keep some Freedom packs from the local pub, and took out a condom.

He made me roll it over him and then open a sachet of lube. He lifted my legs onto his shoulders and used his fingers and the lube before giving me almost twenty minutes of pleasure.

We  both came almost at the same time and as quickly as he had undressed, he had dressed again and was ready to leave. I asked him if we could meet again and he said maybe. He did come again but explained he was married with kids and he was trying not to see guys although sometimes the urge just got too strong.

I don't know if we will meet a third time, I would like to but I won't push the guy. It's his life and he has to live it as he wishes. Pity though, he was perfect !

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IT WORKS FOR ME !
Some of the replies I have had to my ad have been wierd and I haven't even bothered with  them. I'm asian and I can't go to gay clubs or bars in case anyone recognises me. I used to cottage a lot but they have mostly gone. Now I use contact ads on various places including Gaydar, Excite and now Gaysia.

I'm not Mr. perfect but I am honest and try to treat guys as I would like to be treated. I don't like taking it but will give with the right guy. I like white guys but sometimes it works with a black guy or other asian. 
I find the first answer to an ad tells you a lot. If it is too over the top, it usually isn't genuine. If it's too cautious with few words again it often turns out to be someone messing about and there are a lot of those about.

Guys who give the phone number in their first E:Mail are sometimes trying to embarrass a friend. I've been caught like that once !

So does it work. Well in the last twelve months I've met and had sex of one kind or another with about twenty guys, most of whom were decent. Two of them I now see on a regular basis and frankly while I still like a bit of variety, they keep me satisfied. I've had a couple of disasters like the guy who turned out nothing like his photo and another who had never heard of deodorant but as the saying goes, I made my excuses and left.

I'm getting married soon and have to decide what to do. I don't want to give up my gay sex life but I can't really avoid the marriage. One of the good things about my contacts is that with one or two I have at least been able to talk about this to someone who understands and in fact have been married theirselves.

My advice to anyone who hasn't tried contact ads is give it a try, it's worked for me but just be careful.

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LIVING AT HOME BUT NEED .....

I'm living at home, I'm not married, yet, but I need sex. I tried several replies to ads on various sites but after an initial promising exchange of E:Mails, they came to nothing and I got very frustrated. I did try cottages but there aren't that many and I don't feel comfortable especially being asian.
I replied to a couple of ads on gaysia and one sounded promising and the guy turned out to be genuine. I was as nervous as hell the first time I went to his place and he had been very careful before he gave me his address.
Anyway, I got there  OK and once inside his place he really put me at my ease and we sat and talked for about a hour before he asked me if I was happy about everything.
This suprised me as I had expected sex as soon as I walked through the door. Instead he led me slowly towards the sex part of our meeting and it worked out really well. I had lost my nervous feeling and it felt so good to be having sex with a real person rather than in an empty bathroom !
I wasn't very experienced and he allowed for this and I didn't feel under pressure but I really let myself go and it was great.

We have met a few times again since and each time gets better. He says even if I get married, that's OK with him if it's OK with me. I don't know yet what I will do. Maybe I will be satisfied with sex with a wife but it will have to be very good to keep me from occasionally seeing this guy.
There are decent guys out there. It took me a while to find one but now it's all working out fine.
PJ S
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MY QUICKEST QUICKIE
I'm a white guy and one of my quickest encounters came from an ad in Boyz. I got a letter in reply to my ad from a guy claiming to be Indian and a student sharing a house with three other guys all of whome were straight. He gave a phone number and asked me to ring on a specific date and time.It sounded a bit strange but I rang him as he asked.
To put it simply, his flat mates were out for the evening and he wanted me to go over there and then. As he lived only about fifteen minutes away by car, I said OK and went.
He was waiting behind the door, I think, it opened so quickly. He took me into the lounge of the house where the lights were dim. Without any hesitation he started to strip and told me to do the same. He had a small box by the settee and he opened it and inside were condoms , KY and poppers
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Hardly speaking he opened a condom, rolled it on and then pushed me down on the settee and within seconds was giving me just what I had come for. We both used poppers and he certainly knew what he was doing. At first he didn't seem in a hurry to come but then he looked at a clock on the wall and said damm and started to move his body faster until he came.
He then started to get dressed quickly and I did the same.
"Sorry about this" he said, "but my flatmates will be back soon and they would kill me if they knew what I was doing"
I asked him if I could see him again and he said probably not. He enjoyed the excitement of new guys all the time and quick encounters. I even wondered if he actually did have flat mates or if that was part of a turn on for him. I never did find out but it was one of the best quickies I ever had.
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