Hepatitis B is a serious infection which is sexually transmitted and is becoming increasingly common among gay men. A simple course of injections however can protect you and these are obtainable free of charge to gay men who are considered a high risk group.

If you ask you doctor for the injection they will ask why you want it. If you are not comfortable with telling your GP you are gay then the STD clinic can be totally anonymous. If you do not mind your GP. knowing about your sexuality then he or she  will provide it.

A Hepatitis A injection is also available and this is especially important when travelling abroad in the sub continent even without having sex !

Learn to put condoms on properly, rolling them on not pulling. Open the condom packet carefully, many cases of condom failure are due to damage when opening the packet. If you come inside your partner, withdraw slowly holding condom onto the penis until you are outside.

Many men go soft while putting on a condom. It's quite normal !. Practice masturbation using a condom until you get used to wearing one. getting your partner to actually roll the condom onto you can also be more stimulating than putting it on by yourself.
For oral sex ordinary condoms are fine, and flavoured ones can add a bit of fun although some of the flavours are quite revolting !

However, other nitrites, particularly Isobutyl, have been used for nearly 50years as the primary ingredients in a class of consumer products called"room odorizers". Often sold as Liquid Incense® or Liquid Aroma®, the most popular among these are RUSH®, HARDWARE®, QUICKSILVER®, RAM®, HEAVY DUTY BOLT® and LIQUID AROMA BRAND®.

For sale in small glass bottles, these products are often misused asinhalants by the consumer, who removes the cap and places the bottle to the nose to inhale the vapors. The effect is immediate and pleasant for most people although some people report headaches - these are most often the result of impure  brands or products which have 'gone off'. r.

Though there are no true aphrodisiacs (defined as anything that will "create" a sex drive if it doesn't already exist).  But,some researchers claim that these products are the nearest  thing to a true aphrodisiac. 

The pharmacology of these compounds is very simple; when inhaled these products simply relax smooth muscle. Smooth muscle tissue surrounds the body's blood vessels and, when allowed to relax, the heart speeds up to pump more blood through the body  This immediate increase in blood flow is very pleasurable for most people, who nearly all report heightened sensations such as a limited sense of being dizzy, an enhanced sense of touch and taste, as well as a genuine "rush" reportedly making orgasm intensely enhanced and longer in duration. All the body's sphincter muscles
are smooth muscle, which means the anus is relaxed and made to feel more pleasure, as well.

The effects last only about 90 seconds to a couple of minutes. It is reported that users continue to achieve these effects throughout the sex act, or while dancing, by frequently inhaling small amounts during the activity. These products were very popular in discos and bars as well, where users inhaled from them to supposedly better enjoy the sensations around them also in combination with other drugs.

There is a large body of data that appears to demonstrate that these products are perfectly safe. Although there was some immediate concern about a possible correlation at the onset of the AIDS crisis in the early 1980's, those old theories have since been discredited. Data indicates that no evidence of long-term psychological or physical harm is associated with the use of poppers.

Some people are prone to short duration headache with these compounds, and
the problem is further increased with the use of inferior  brands or the "video head cleaner" products. Poppers are best kept in the fridge between use and discarded if they start to give headaches.

In rare instances, if the liquid contacts the skin, it can cause minor  rirritation, as well as a rash - sometimes around the lips and nose. (This is usually caused by inferior  brands, which may contain  impurities.)

These products are highly flammable, and should never  be used near an open
flame.Always read the instructions on each bottle.These products  should never be swallowed. If that happens, drink one or two glasses of milk or water, and induce vomiting. See a doctor immediately.

Some users soak a tissue with the liquid and insert into their nostrils. This is not advisable because of irritation to the nose tissues and liquuid on the fingers can be transfered to the eyes which is incredibly painful as the writer can testify !

Since they both act similarly on the body, Poppers and Viagra® should not be
mixed! (Both cause a drop in blood pressure, which can be dangerous. Viagra®
comes with a package insert that explains this. Please read it if you are a
Viagra® user!). People with heart problems should avoid the use of poppers.

Although we cannot know the laws of every country in the world,we believe that possession or use of poppers is not illegal in theUnited States, United-Kingdom, Germany, Netherlands, Japan, France, Switzerland or most other countries. It is a good idea to check the status where you live or intend visiting. If in doubt, leave them at home !

Used with care, poppers can be pleasurable and safe. 
The above information is extracted from the website www.poppers.to  This Company offers branded products mostly of US origin and the site also contains more detailed information.

ANOTHER VERY GOOD WEBSITE FULL OF INFORMATION ABOUT POPPERS IS AT

AIDS, however is not the only risk to consider. Many' old fashioned' STD's such as Gonorrhea and Syphillis can be transmitted this way and although they are not fatal and can be cured, they can be unpleasant. Don't suck a dick which is not clean, has cuts or lesions. 

Herpes is another risk. IT CANNOT BE CURED. Don't get sucked by anyone with cold sores or other sores on the lips. 

You can always insist on using  a condom and this time you don't need the extra strong variety and even flavoured versions can be exciting.

Can be treated effectively with anti biotics and cured completely. At one time was known as the 'clap' or 'gay flue'

Using condoms for anal and oral sex can give protection. Avoid sex for a month after treatment and if you did have sex in the weeks before discovery, inform your partners so they can get a check up.

Cases dropped over last 20 years but are rising again in the UK. You do not have to go to your GP, a STD clinic will treat you anonymously and with understanding and without criticism. See GU CLINICS

If you visit a GU clinic for a regular checkup, they will normally always test for the infection and give treatment if needed. Condoms during oral sex can prevent infection as can condons during anal sex.

The infection is not common in the UK but common in many other parts of the world including the USA. Even so care is needed and awareness and prompt attention if any symptoms occur.

I am still amazed that I meet guys who don't want to bother with a condom. More often than not it's ignorance  because many guys especially Asians, are not on the scene, young and their sex education incomplete due to stupid government policies.

Anal sex is great fun, exciting  and low risk if you use strong condoms, plenty of lubricant and keep checking that the damm thing hasn't slipped off or split. As a final precaution pull the penis out as you come.

You can buy lubricants  at Clone Zone shops across the country and by mail order. For web sites stocking such products visit www.londongayman.co.uk shopping page.
Use lots of lubricant to reduce risk of condom tearing. Never use any other lubricant, they can weaken the condom. Liquid Silk is very good.

Lubricant should be placed inside the passive partner with a finger and rubbed all over the active partner's  penis after the condom is in place. 

Don't let this put you off ! These clinics exist in most towns in most large hospitals. They exist to stop the spread of sexually transmitted disease. They won't judge you, they are there to help you if you are worried that you may be at risk. You don't have to give your real name and if you do they will keep information you give them private and confidential.

The doctor will ask very personal questions about your sex life and partners. Just be honest, he or she will have heard it all before and can only help if you do not hold anything back.

The tests may include urine, saliva and blood samples and the physical checks may include an internal examination using a rather sinister looking appliance. Don't worry, it doesn't hurt !

You will be asked to phone a few days later for the results of some tests except if you have an HIV test where results are normally given in person. 

You will not be given an HIV test unless you ask for one. If you do ask for one you will be given counselling before and after the test.

If you have sex with men on a regular basis, a visit to the clinic is just a sensible part of life. It will hopefully reassure you and stop any worries you may have

They survive by sucking blood and the first signs may be itching, small white dots on the hairs of the chest, underarm or pubic area and small dark spots on underwear of dried blood.

Sexual contact is one way they spread but any simple body contact can also cause infestation. They can also be spread by clothing or bedding.

Creams, lotions and shampoos exist which kill both the lice and their eggs. Don't be scared of asking a pharmacist for advice. usually the liquid will have to be applied to the whole body and left for twelve hours or so. A second treatment may be needed.
Bedding and clothing should be well washed.

If you have had sexual contact with someone while infected, it may be as well, if difficult, to let them know. Most gay men are quite unfazed by such information. Quellada lotion/shampoo is a popular and widely sold treatment.