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The remedy Water Violet belongs to the group of Loneliness, as classified by Bach. This group consists of only three remedies, the other two being Impatiens and Heather. Specifically, Water Violet treats states of aloofness and haughtiness.

In the Water Violet state, one raises the self above others and, with the attitude of a reserved dignity, removes from lively involvement with people. Due to deepened life experiences with subsequent understanding of life's truths and an intensified process of spiritual growth, one perceives oneself as special, advanced, refined, and perceptive and believes others to be less aware or matured. In case life's experiences involved grief or being hurt by others, one finds more reason to retreat from people and isolate oneself behind a wall of self-protection and feelings of superiority.
This is the two-fold character of the Water Violet state; one feels superior and special, yet deep down is vulnerable and lonely. The perceptive error in this state lies in trying to establish independence and preserve one's mature and refined self-concept by shunning involvement with others, while true greatness and genuine self-respect are earned best in loving, self-forgetful service and comradery with others.
The reasons for feeling superior may also lie in one's special talents, achievements, or one's heritage, as one feels uniquely endowed, accomplished, or favored. In most cases, this advantage is quietly savored within, just occasionally presented and talked about. In some other cases, however, superiority is expressed more vigorously through haughty behavior, eccentricity, and condescension.
In treatment of delusional disorder (grandiose type) and narcissistic personality disorder, when there is the tendency to feel haughty and eccentric, this remedy can be of service. In these disorders, usually an underlying insecurity, desire for attention and admiration, and envy fuel the grandiose perceptions and aspirations, and other remedies may be asked for.

In the quiet type, the emotional life may be subdued and stagnating, since active engagement with others is avoided or even considered as disturbing to the inner peace. This lack of involvement may be interpreted as disinterest, lack of spontaneity, or even apathy in face of social stimulation and amusement. In actuality, the Water Violet person longs for genuine human encounter but may not be fully aware of such a quest. Isolation and removal stifle from deep within and leave the inner self empty and sad. From the position of self-protection, the Water Violet person may not easily venture forth, as soon as the inner need for social interaction is coming to the fore; but may prefer to wait, experiencing mixed feelings of pride and sensitivity, and let the other do the first move. This rather passive state may lead to further disappointment and work the person deeper into aloofness and seclusion.
The more expressive Water Violet type shows superiority and condescension more openly and offensively. Pride and eccentricity may alienate others unduly and keep them at bay. This more spontaneous type may not be as vulnerable inside as the quiet type but still lacks the genuine bridge of mutual appreciation and heartfelt venture toward others.
A temporary Water Violet state may come on in those who have been offended or humiliated, as they try to protect their self-image. One may choose to raise oneself above the offender, instead of accepting the negative appraisal or affront and being crushed by it. Oftentimes, the expressive Water Violet type itself may push others into this state of self-defense, as one Water Violet mentality creates another, even if just temporarily. This remedy will restore friendship and comradery, where once was alienation and affront.

To meet and serve others in spontaneous kindness and self-forgetfulness, putting their desire for happiness, self-worth, and personal recognition above one's own. To see and appreciate each person as special and unique.