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FLOWER
RXS HOME
AGRIMONY
ASPEN
BEECH
CENTAURY
CERATO
CHERRY PLUM
CHESTNUT BUD
CHICORY
CLEMATIS
CRAB APPLE
ELM
GENTIAN
GORSE
HEATHER
HOLLY
HONEYSUCKLE
HORNBEAM
IMPATIENS
LARCH
MIMULUS
MUSTARD
OAK
OLIVE
PINE
RED CHESTNUT
RESCUE REMEDY
ROCK ROSE
ROCK WATER
SCLERANTHUS
STAROF BETHLEHEM
SWEET CHESTNUT
VERVAIN
VINE
WALNUT
WATER VIOLET
WHITE CHESTNUT
WILD OAT
WILD ROSE
WILLOW
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The remedy Holly belongs to
the group of Oversensitive to Influences and Ideas, as classified
by Bach. Additional remedies in this group are Agrimony, Centaury,
and Walnut, all helping those suffering from vulnerability to
disturbances from outside. Specifically, Holly treats negative
or aggressive feelings or thoughts that are often marked by anger
or agitation in response to a perceived threat.
In the Holly state, one easily perceives disturbances in the form
of circumstances or other people as threats to one's peace and
well-being. One reacts with oversensitivity to often minor occurrences
which would leave many others undisturbed. The irritated mind
is set on rejection in such a state, on being free of the annoyance,
even to the point of inflicting harm, as happens in extreme cases.
The Holly state is a fighter's mentality, an agitated, aggressive
state, either expressed through words or gestures or simply held
within, as stirred-up emotions grip the self.
The mind, being too quick to perceive others as threatening, is
prone to be swayed and become unreasonable due to suspicion, envy,
jealousy, revenge, anger, and wounded pride.
In regard to mental disorders, this remedy is of value in treatment
of antisocial personality disorder, conduct disorder (cf. Chestnut
Bud, Vine), paranoid personality disorder, and delusional or any
other disorder with aggressive or jealous features. In persecutory
or paranoid delusions, there can be heightened accusation and
antagonism against the imagined threat of others (cf. Beech, Willow).
In problems with impulse control, when rage is not bridled, Holly
can restore the necessary inner control (cf. Cherry Plum, Impatiens,
Vervain, Vine).
Emotions experienced in the
Holly state can be very strong and rule the self. Oftentimes,
they are invested in with much personal force, as one relishes
and stirs up the negative. One may even feel empowered or invigorated
by such sentiments, since the fighter's charge runs through the
self. Then again, as the initial thrust cools off, one may find
oneself plotting calmly or quietly engaging in devious thought.
The more one loses perspective and augments the negative sentiment,
the more difficult it is to find the heart-centered balance that
is called for.
This remedy is also of help to a person with good intentions who
is irritable and easily annoyed without necessarily investing
in negative thinking or doing. The Holly state can be a state
of exhaustion, frazzled nerves, and of being overstimulated by
environmental impact. Excessive noise and turmoil, as may be caused
by children, can spoil the mood and create the urge to "fight"
oneself free. If held within, there is much internal suffering
and agony; if expressed, others suffer as well, while there might
be the illusion of having helped the self to feel less stifled.
Much violence and abuse originate in this agitated Holly state,
and uncontrolled behavior may happen even if not wished for (cf.
Cherry Plum).
To be prone to vexation and upset is a painful experience, creating
much internal suffering. Often, these people long for quiet repose
and peaceful surroundings. There is the tendency to seek the cause
of disturbance in the outside world, although it is the internal
balance between impact and reaction that needs to be restored,
ideally by avoiding unnecessary turmoil or vexing situations,
while seeking tolerance of response and a loving attitude within.
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To reduce oversensitivity
and force of negative emotions by calming the inner, easily agitated
self and allowing for feelings of kindness to come forth more
readily. To instill the desire to give love.
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