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FLOWER
RXS HOME
AGRIMONY
ASPEN
BEECH
CENTAURY
CERATO
CHERRY PLUM
CHESTNUT BUD
CHICORY
CLEMATIS
CRAB APPLE
ELM
GENTIAN
GORSE
HEATHER
HOLLY
HONEYSUCKLE
HORNBEAM
IMPATIENS
LARCH
MIMULUS
MUSTARD
OAK
OLIVE
PINE
RED CHESTNUT
RESCUE REMEDY
ROCK ROSE
ROCK WATER
SCLERANTHUS
STAROF BETHLEHEM
SWEET CHESTNUT
VERVAIN
VINE
WALNUT
WATER VIOLET
WHITE CHESTNUT
WILD OAT
WILD ROSE
WILLOW
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Chicory belongs to the group
of Overcare for Welfare of Others, as classified by Bach. The
other remedies in this group are Rock Water, Beech, Vine, Vervain.
This group deals with mental/emotional imbalances in regard to
caring for or controlling others. Specifically, Chicory treats
a heightened care for others that is marked by possessiveness.
In the Chicory state, the mind is bent on taking care of others
according to its own design or idea. It is a self-centered approach
to caring, since the true needs of the care recipient may not
be noticed or found unimportant by the caretaker. The care received
may be interpreted as too forceful or unnecessary, and, as soon
as this message is conveyed, there develop sentiments of self-pity
in the care-giving person, a sense of not being appreciated for
one's efforts. This is the double-sided dynamic of the Chicory
state.
The Chicory mind sets up fairly rigid opinions and ways of working
with others. There is the conviction that one's perceptions and
opinions are correct, and one assumes the right to force them
on others. This usually happens with good intentions of passing
on the right way but may be experienced by others as too controlling
or interfering. There is also the tendency to be overly careful
with details, one's daily duties, and with cleanliness. Possessiveness
of people, as well as of goods, is another indication for this
remedy.
There also exists an inactive Chicory state when attention is
desired through retreat, manipulations, and pretense, and one
waits for others to connect and provide security and love, rather
than actively going out toward them. In both cases, the goal is
to bind others closely to the self. The active Chicory type may
experience the inactive Chicory state during times of illness
when self-pity and demands for attention are forthcoming.
This remedy is indicated in
the treatment of feigning of sickness in order to gain attention,
called factitious disorder (cf. Chestnut Bud, Heather), in eating
disorders (cf. Crab Apple, Mustard), should the inactive Chicory
dynamic be present. In conversion disorders, also called hysterical
neurosis of the conversion type, when the body expresses through
illness the unvoiced psychological need for attention and love,
Chicory can help heal the underlying dynamic.(1) Hypochondriasis
(cf. Heather, Mimulus), somatoform pain disorder, which is a preoccupation
with pain without physical findings, and somatization disorder,
this being long-standing medical complaints without actual illness,
can also rest on a Chicory need for attention gain. In histrionic
personality disorder, based on attention-seeking within the sexual
sphere, Chicory can remove the underlying dynamic (cf. Cherry
Plum).
The Chicory state, although seemingly overbearing to others, does
root in a heartfelt desire to love and serve and find closeness.
Devotion and caring are undermined, however, by the person's insistence
on their own style and their self-centered idea of how to convey
their care for and interest in others.
Furthermore, there is the underlying motive of binding others
closely to oneself for the sake of power, influence, or to escape
loneliness. In the Chicory state, one has a very hard time letting
go of others and relinquishing one's rights as caretaker.
Another personal reason, sidetracking
with true love and devotion, is the need for attention and appreciation.
One serves others with the intention to find recognition and be
seen as valuable or indispensable. The typical Chicory self-pity
comes in as appreciation is not expressed, efforts overlooked
or even resented. Self-pity, hurt feelings, and retreat are also
common in courtship when a partner is rebuffed or treated unfairly.
Next to the active Chicory attitude, there is also the inactive
attitude of expecting attention and caring, simply for being in
the world. There is the need to be the center of attention and
be appreciated, even though special efforts have not been forthcoming.
Self-pity, sulkiness, and pouting are common if affectionate attention
is not offered. If consoled, there may be annoyance and persisted-in
self-pity, as if intended to arouse even more sympathy in the
other. This state is commonly experienced in children, although
seen in adults as well, except that the adults' mannerisms or
ways of expressing the emotional message may be less childlike
and differ more from person to person. People may resort to manipulation,
power play, pretense, threat, possessiveness, or feigning of sickness
in order to convey that they feel hurt, offended, or overlooked.
If attended to, they may reject being consoled which increases
their self-pity and may create further alienation in others rather
than bring the desired appreciation. In case attention is accepted,
there may be fussiness and capriciousness, and nothing may please.
Overcoming a self-centered attitude and self-pity, while tuning
in to the needs of others, helps to break this fruitless cycle.
To instill love that seeks
not to acquire for personal gain but is selfless and self-forgetful
in service and true understanding of another person's individuality,
potential, and needs.
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