We were a large family, seven girls and seven boys, my father
was a baker and corn merchant, and ran a little corner shop in
Bridgwater in the West Country. The bakery was at the back and
ran quite along way. My father married at an eary age of twenty,
he took the business from his father, it had been in the family
for generations. Baking at that time was really hard work, all
made by hand. Father made up his mind he would work up a really
good business and he did. The day he took the business over, he
took Ellen, the little maid, to work with him.
The wedding day came, mother was just nineteen and from that day
it was nothing but hard work, but they were very happy and proud.
Then the first baby was to arrive. Mother carried on looking after
the shop whilst father was in the bakehouse. She managed alone
until the very last hour - it was always that way. The first baby
was born, a little girl. I think perhaps father was disappointed,
he had of course a son in mind. Everything went well. Fathers
sister attended the shop just for two weeks then mother was back
again. The little maid, Ellen, was wonderful and although very
young she managed well. Things started to pick up a little, the
business certainly improved, then another baker was employed.
He was a funny little man and hard worker. He certainly had to
to keep up with father. They called him Stumpy. In a short while
mother was expecting another child. This seemed rather much, but
still work had to go on.
My grandparents lived in a little cottage opposite the shop. Gran
was a great help and very good with the baby and with Ellen it
worked well. The second baby arrived - another girl, father was
quite proud really. 'Perhaps it will be a boy next time.', says
he. Certainly things had to be a little different, mother found
it was really too much for Ellen even with the help of Gran. She
managed to find someone living quite near who was willing to work
a few hours each morning. This was a great relief to mother as
she was rather afraid to leave two babies with Ellen, although
working on the premises, mother was able to keep an eye on things.
All went well in the bakery and father decided to start a bread
round. He started with two bread barrows and delivered from house
to house. Most of his customers were living in streets quite near
but people were only too glad to have their bread delivered. Then
other customers enquired if it would be possible to deliver a
little way out of the town. Father thought it a bit too much to
push the barrows so far. Being the businessman he was, he tried,
but it was hard work. However, he was pleased how well things
were going and you have to work for success as he already knew.
He carried on a long time hoping very soon he would be able to
buy his first horse and cart, but things would have to wait a
while as mother was expecting her third child. He really wanted
to see things through hoping this time it would be a boy. His
wish was granted and he was delighted. 'Now I have a son, Aldred
it shall be. I will make him a good baker'. He fully intended
all his children should be in the business. It was going to be
a family affair, and as time will tell, it was.
'Now the next thing we have to do Nance', thats what he called
mother, 'is to get this horse and cart. We have a family to look
after'. Because in his mind he knew there would be more, he still
wanted sons, he must have sons to carry on. He bought the horse
and cart, it was a small turnout, quite big enough to start he
thought. Of course at the time it was all he could afford, he
was a man who would not go beyond his means, on no account would
he take up money, everything had to be payed on delivery.
My Gran was a dear soul. What mother would have done without her
I just cannot think. She was wonderful with the children. She
had worried about mother who as a child was very delicate. Gran
had already lost one daughter and she thought that mother was
working too hard and seemed to be starting a family rather quickly
as the fourth child was on the way. It seemed father had really
made up his mind to have a bakers dozen. That where I come in,
as I was the thirteenth, but we have a long way to go yet.
Well the baby was born, another boy, which needless to say pleased
father. He was already on his way to making some good bakers.
This son was called Ernest. I expect mother thought father was
really earnest about the business - he fully intended to make
a fine one.
It was work, work, from morning till night, both my parents seemed
to thrive on it and they intended to bring their children up the
same way. They were still living on the premises, rather small
living accommodation, the family was growing, and father was thinking
they would soon have to get somewhere different to live. They
certainly would have to wait awhile for that.
Everthing went smoothly in the home, of couse extra help was needed,
the children were well looked after. I am afraid mother saw very
little of them, four more children were born at the shop. Two
daughters then another two sons and things were working out quite
well, business was good.
Father thought it was now time to make a move so he bought a house
quite near. He wanted to be near the business. After buying it
I think he thought that it was not quite larger enough, but it
was convenient so they moved.
Ellen by this time was mothers right hand as you may say, she
really loved the children. They stayed for a while in this house
then mother found she was having another child so father decided
to make another move and quickly another house was found, trust
father. It was a little further away but that could not be helped,
and it was there another son was born.
By this time another horse and cart was on the road, the bread
rounds were proving very satisfactory and growing fast, only one
thing now father had in mind was for his sons to work beside him.
He had a long wait, it was early days, but he was well organised
having employed extra hands, but Stumpy was the old faithful -
it was fetch and carry.
Not long after the second move father saw a very nice house for
sale in view of his shop, he thought this would be ideal for the
family. It was well talked over with mother, she approved and
it was all settled and the house was purchased and then the family
moved again. Mother was quite pleased with this house. She felt
it was the final move and she was right. Five more children were
born, three daughters and two sons. I was one of the daughters
-the last but one to be born - the thirteenth. By this time my
brothers and sisters were growing up and were very useful. My
eldest sister helped mother at a very early age in the shop -
that was May. My sister Gertie begged to stay at home to look
after the younger children. Ellen was delighted with this extra
help. We lost one brother at the age of three months, this now
left thirteen of us to grow up together. The shop was still going
well, father working hard with his two eldest boys giving any
help they could, very young and still at school and with May helping
mother. They carried on until they were able to leave school which
was a considerable help to my parents, the two boys working very
hard and May turning out to be a good business girl. Father was
just waiting now for the rest of the family to help. He did not
have to wait long as there was little difference in the ages.
We knew we should all be in this little old fashioned shop taking
turn early morning, then off to school and back again.
My parents never had a holiday, the only pleasure we had all together
was on a Sunday. Sometimes father used to hire a brake and off
we use to set, all sat up so proud, to a little village on the
Quantocks. There we used to have tea in the gardens of a small
inn. Sometimes it was very difficult to accomodate us all. Father
then used to get very impatient as it was important that he should
return in time to make the dough for the next morning. When this
happened, he would not go again for months, instead he would hire
a governess cart which he would drive and we would set off just
around the country villages, but we all had to take our turn as
only five of us could go on those occassions.
On Monday another week would start, father off early in the morning,
the two boys Aldred and Ernest would follow later at a set time.
The first batch had to be drawn very early for the deliveries,
also for the shop which seemed to be open at all times. May would
arrive to take over at just about 8 O'Clock. She would then wait
patiently for mother, who would be there an hour later, after
she had arranged things for the day at home.
The bread barrows were packed. Father and my brother Ernest would
be off to deliver his morning bread. It was certainly not the
best part of town. Some of the houses were very poor and delapidated
and little courts were running along with houses each side. They
were all very friendly people, my brother got on well with them
and gained alot of customers which pleased father, but what did
not please him was that he took twice as long as he should in
delivering, which was quite true. He was a friendly lad. He would
knock on the door, call 'Baker', then walk in, sit down, have
a cup of tea and a chat and then off he would go. This happened
time and time again. Father became very angry and told my brother
it had to stop. Ernest was very bold. Shaking in his shoes he
said 'Well father, if you stop me you will lose your best customers.
You have to be friendly in business'. These words pleased father,
they were the truest words spoken. He knew the bread barrows were
his first success and from those very customers. Not another word
was mentioned, Ernest still carried on as usual.
Quite near the business there was a Cattle Market. Every Wednesday
the farmers would bring the cattle into the market to be auctioned.
Through the street off the shop they had low iron railings and
it was here that the sheep used to be penned in by hurdles and
sold by lot numbers. At the top of this street there was a large
field called St Matthews. The last Wednesday in September a four
day chartered fair was held. On the first day all cattle was sold
on the field including the sheep and then against the iron railings
leading to the field there would be stalls erected each side of
the street. It was almost like Petticoat Lane. All this was very
good for business. The shop had a wonderful position. Farmers
called and corn trade was rapidly growing. They were now using
the dwelling part of the premises for store and father had an
engine installed to crush his own grain. He then began to take
a very keen interest in the corn market. He would buy a ship load
of grain which would come by the river delivered to the docks.
It would be unloaded into trucks in the siding and then into store
at a warehouse. Often the whole consignment was sold. Father then
made a good business deal, especially if prices had risen in the
meantime. He made sure the grain would not be in store any length
of time, because after a certain date you had to pay extra storage,
which was rather heavy.
Naturally the running of the house was left to mother. The biggest
problem was catering. We were just like a little regiment, everything
had to be arranged the night before with Ellen and Gertrude; they
were the heads. Lunches had to be sent to the shop each day for
the working family as they did not return until late at night.
The meals were planned the next morning. Mother, on her way to
business, would give the grocer and the butcher the order and
all goods were delivered. She knew exactly everything that was
required.
There were now five children going to school, two girls, Connie
and Bee and three boys, Graham, Bill and Hubert. They were now
at the age where they were well able to help and look after one
another. After they set off for school, Gertie and Ellen had to
see to the rest of the family, the youngest boy Reggie and the
three girls Gladys, myself and Doris the youngest girl. In a very
short while the whole family would be going to school, in the
meanwhile extra help was given daily in the home.
My brothers had very little to do with the corn trade at this
stage as they were too young for the buying and selling. There
was of course, the selling over the counter. We had the corn bins
(wooden containers) placed around the walls and it was sold by
the bushel or peck. There was a rounded bran shovel to ladle it
into bags or sacks and it was a favorite occupation for any children
around - then and for many years after - to dip their hands in
the bins and let the slippery, dusty corn slip through their fingers.
Father began to think mother should have more help. Bee and Connie
were older than the boys helping in the shop, so it was decided
that Bee should be Ellens help, why not Connie I shall never know.
She was the only one not called upon to help for the shop or house.
I think we shall always remember Monday washday. Special arrangements
had to be made as it was a very big affair. Clothes were piled
up almost to the ceiling. Then came the ironing that fell to Ellen,
which was done in the evening when all was quiet. There were dozens
of little pinafores all inserted with lace which needed special
care and little frocks with puff sleeves. When finished they looked
a picture, but not for long! Ellen had two evenings off a week,
Sunday and Wednesday. She had no parents, that was why she made
her home with Grandfather Bowering so young. She had two sisters,
both married. Therefore she had two homes to visit, but she always
called North Street home as that is where we lived.
Some years after he had taken the business, Grandfather Bowering
and family (three sons and two daughters) left our little country
town and made their home in Wales. Before leaving, he realised
his son was a keen businessman and was making good where he had
certainly failed.
Gertie was well known toiling with the children, always two in
the pram and one either side. She certainly did not think it was
a toil as she had made chose. She would often hear said, 'Oh thats
a part of the Bowering family'. We were well known as the bakers
dozen. Some days she would meet the rest of the family from school
and they would all trail home together. By the time they arrived,
tea would be ready, set by Ellen who then would immediatly take
over the boys who certainly seemed to be in favour. When mother
and May came home, they were the first to arrive, the youngest
part of the family would be in bed and Gertie would see the others
were very quiet whilst Ellen saw to another meal. Mother by this
time was very tired and needed a little peace so she was well
looked after. Next home would be Aldred and Ernest. Ellen knew
within the hour, but with father she never knew the time he would
arrive which made things rather difficult to manage.
The three boys, Graham, Bill and Hubert were now in turn going
to the shop, chiefly in the mornings before May arrived, which
helped the workers in the bakehouse as they had to keep an eye
on the shop. Mother, after a little while, had a feeling all was
not well with the three boys. They did not seem to take the interest
in the business and she wondered what would happen when the time
came for them to go into the bakehouse, but it was early days
and she felt it was not quite fair to judge so quickly and she
knew if they were in trouble they would certainly go to her first.
It was always mother who would make things right, so she put her
thoughts on one side and hoped for the best.
Father was seriously thinking of buying another horse and cart,
the two already on the road with the town round were already showing
a good profit and growing rapidly. He thought a country round
would be very profitable once established. My parents on Sunday
evenings always sat a few hours together in the front bedroon
watching the passers by. It was very quiet and away from the children.
At this time they were able to talk things over and on one of
these evenings father spoke of his proposition.
'Nance', said he, 'What do you think about another cart on the
road, I think we could manage it now'.
'Whatever for', exclaimed mother, 'we are doing quite well at
the moment'.
'Yes, very' said father, 'but I want to improve trade and I thought
of starting a country round, don't forget the three boys, they
will be a great help soon'.
Mother thought a while before she answered, she was certainly
thinking of the boys as they had recently been very much in her
thoughts. She looked up and saw father was waiting for an answer.
She hesitated.
'Well Albert', said mother, 'I think perhaps I should wait a while,
the boys are very young and you cannot expect much from them yet,
and it will be some time before they can assist you in the bakehouse'.
'That settles it then', said father, 'but I certainly intend to
start a country round. We will leave it at the moment'.
He was rather taken aback at mothers reply, but had no idea what
she was thinking as she dare not mention her thoughts at this
time.
For months now father had the third horse and cart still in mind.
He failed to understand why mother had turned the suggestion down
as she was fully aware they were able to afford them. He felt
he should really do something about it. Valuable time was already
wasted. Several days later when father was working in the bakehouse
with the door wide open when who should pass but none other than
the horse dealer from whom father had bought the two horses.
'Good morning Mr Bowering', said he,'You seem very busy. How are
things going?'
'Very well indeed', said father, 'I am thinking of buying another
horse in the near future. Will you have a good one to offer?'
'I have right now one that would suit very well, quiet and steady',
said the dealer. Father was just drawing a batch of bread, he
immediatly downed peel. He called Aldred to carry on.
'We will talk outside', said father. They both walked towards
the door and closed it behind them. Aldred finding it hard work
began to wonder how much longer father would be, then in walked
mother. She was amazed to see Aldred drawing the batch alone.
'Wheres your father?' said mother. Outside father was talking
business with the gentleman from whom he bought his horses.
'I overheard him say he thought of buying another horse', said
Aldred. Mother knew she dare not interrupt the business. She turned
and went in search of Stumpy to help Aldred as she could see it
was far too much for him. If the price was right the deal would
certainly be made.
That night father was rather late coming home. He had been to
view the horse. 'You are late Albert', said mother.
'Yes, I am afraid I had some important business to settle'.
'Such as buying a horse', said mother rather curtly.
Father looked very black and wondered how she had got the news.
'Yes, you are quite right Nance. I have bought the horse, a real
beauty and a bargain. I really could not miss the chance'.
'All I can say',said mother,'is I hope you have done the right
thing'.
'I am sure',said father,'You must realise we have a large family
to provide for and this is not like you to stop me making extra
trade. You are as keen as I, Whats wrong?'
'Nothings wromg at the moment. You will certainly have to employ
an extra hand for a country round. The three boys are too young
to undertake any part in this. Also Aldred and Ernest have as
much as they can do in the bakery'.
'Yes, I intend to do that, but I thought Ernest might help to
solicite the customers. He is a good business lad and seems to
be very popular',said father with a trouble in his eye, 'Of course
he may take as long as he wishes'.
'How do you propose starting the country round?',said mother.
We were brought up Congregationalist, both my parents were Sunday
school teachers. That, I believe, is where they first met. After
their marriage they were obliged to give up teaching. There was
so much to be done in the baking trade, even on a Sunday. When
father was able to employ his first hand, Stumpy the hard little
worker, things became easier. He went to church occasionally with
mother. I cannot imagine father teaching children. Even so, he
saw that his children, when of age, attended Sunday school as
he certainly was brought up that way.
When Gran Nicholls lost her youngest daugther, Fanny at the age
of eleven years, she was very greived and her faith was shattered.
It was not until mother had her first child, May, that she really
began to see light. Later with all her grandchildren she felt
well blessed and was able to shower her love upon us. We were
very glad to receive that love, it was certainly sent. We could
always call on Gran and Grandpa Nicholls, they were there waiting
and had time for us all. When we began to grow up a little and
we were able to look back, we knew what wonderful grandparents
we had, they possessed so little but gave so much.
We had a nice sized garden. My brothers kept all sorts of pets
at different times and it was mother who arranged a small shed
to be made to house them. She never refused anything that was
able to give pleasure. Whatever we asked from father it was always
'Ask your mother', with one exeption and that was if we needed
new shoes he would immediatly make arrangements for them to be
purchased and he would pay.
The boys managed to buy two or three fowls between them, and that
was the beginning. Every available moment they would be at the
shed. At times the door would be left open, the fowls would be
out, then the trouble would start. They blamed each other. On
this particular occasion it brought Ellen on the scene.
'What is all this noise about?' said she.
'Someone left the door open and the fowls are out', said Graham,
' and it wasnt me, I havn't been near them'.
'Don't tell lies', said Bill, 'I saw you leaving the shed'.
'I can say you saw double', said Graham.
'My sights good. Its you who need glasses', said Bill
Now Grahams sight was not too good. Those last few words from
Bill caused real trouble and a few blows were struck. Ellen came
between them, then all was over.
'Now', said Ellen, 'you have been so busy fighting one another,
where are the fowls?'
Both boys looked around, but not a bird was to be seen.
'Only one thing now', said Ellen, 'You will have to find them',
and with the same she walked indoors.
'Well its not much good looking at each other', said Graham, 'We
must do something about it'.
'We shall have to find them soon, there will be more trouble if
Hubert arrives',said Bill, 'remember he is a partner'.
'Thats just what I am thinking, so off we go',said Graham.
The fowls were found after much difficulty. They were in a garden
three doors away. They were back in the shed just as Hubert walked
in.
'I fancy you are spending a lot of time with those fowls',said
he,'You were here when I left two hours ago. Are you watching
them grow?'.
Both the boys laughed and almost said together, 'Well it was time
well spent, we have given them a good exercise'.
Hubert thought they were both mad. He was right in a way. They
had been with one another a short while ago.
Gladys and Reggie started school. Now there were only two of us
left at home and in a short while we should all be at school together.
I can remember quite well the day I started, so keen to go, but
when the day came what a fuss! I stood at the front door and would
not budge an inch. Gladys at the gate shouting at the top of her
voice,'Olive. We shall be late'. Gertie rushes through the hall.
She thought we were both well on our way. Only one went to school
that day, needless to say it was not me. We attended a little
dame school in a Regency house near the river which has recently
been filmed. Later we went to a school run by two maiden ladies,
which was a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were
daughters of farmers from villages around. At the close of school
on Friday their fathers used to fetch them in horse drawn vehicles.
We were glad to be at this school. It was situated between the
shop and the home.
We had another big event as well as St Matthews fair - Guy Fawkes
carnival night. It was held the Thursday nearest the 5th November
which was early closing day. There were great preparations during
the afternoon. The shop windows in the main streets would be barricaded
with planks of wood and tarpaulins hanging down from the windows,
then the hose played on them in case of fire. The wood protected
the plate glass from the crowds.
It was not long after Gladys had broken her arm that Bee was taken
ill during the night. She seemed to be very feverish and Ellen
went to the medical cupboard. It was always well stocked and never
without fever cure. I thought she may be sickening for measles.
She didnt seem to get any better during the day and everyone seemed
to be looking for spots. When mother came home she was surprised
to see how ill she looked and Dr Tommy was called. He came down
the stairs looking very serious. He called mother into the dining
room and closed the door. We learnt in a short while that Bee
had scarlet fever. The house seemed to be in an uproar - what
was going to happen? It had to be reported to the health doctor.
We all wondered if she would be taken away in the Black Maria
(thats what we called it, a black coach, horse drawn), but father
would not hear of her leaving the house. She was allowed to stay
home after a lot of fuss and she was put into a bedroom at the
top of the house, a disinfected sheet was hung over the door and
Ellen was called upon once more to do the nursing. The boys, working
in the bakehouse, were not allowed to stay at home, some went
to stay with Gran Nicholls, the others boarded.
Ellen nursed Bee and Gertie looked after the rest of us. It meant
six weeks holiday for us all. She worried about Gladys and wondered
when her turn would come, but it never did. She could be in and
out of the bedrooms without any fear. On these occasions most
of her time was spent with us. She was very good although she
felt we were having the good time. She carried out all our little
wants, it used to be 'You can go, we cant'. I remember one incident.
Doris and I had previously seen a game in a paper shop window
down the road. We looked at it for days with our noses pressed
against the window. Now was the chance to get this, we thought.
We could all share with this together so we asked Gladys to go
and get the money from mother at the shop. She refused and said
you must wait until tomorrow. Mother always asked each morning
if there is anything we wanted, if so she would bring it that
evening. This meant we had to wait another day.
Christmas was dawning near, great preparations were on the way
at home. Ellen was already making the puddings. A large number
was made every year. They were kept at least four years before
they were used. In turn we all had a stir of the mixture which
was made in a large earthenware bread pan. It was a busy time
for mother with the shopping, presents for us all. She always
seemed calm and collective and gave just what we wanted. Gertie
was a great help finding what each of us had in mind. May, with
mother, set out shopping and would come back laden with parcels
which were kept hidden in the shop until the very last hour.
The turkey was cooked in the bakehouse oven as it was far too
large to roast at home and father allowed some of his customers
to make use of his oven. Stumpy was left in charge. I can see
him now swaying up the garden path wondering if he would reach
the back door with safe delivery. When the customers collected
their bird, each of them would give him a tip and everytime he
would pop into the pub next door to refresh himself. Each year,
however, he managed to reach the back door safely. He then received
a little more refreshment. By the time he arrived home he was
certainly under the weather - well oiled as they say.
Father had wonderful Xmas boxes from different firms - whole case
of oranges, 7lb boxes of sweets and a whole box of muscatels.
Christmas day came. It was an event for father to be at home.
During the day, although he often walked to the shop to see if
all was well, it seemed a magnet to father - his heart was there.
On Boxing day the dough had to be prepared for the next day. The
two older boys would give a hand to make things a little easier.
It seemed strange having both parents at home together during
the day. They remained very much together leaving us children
to our own amusements. We usually had quite a number of table
games between us which gave great interest and certainly kept
us all together. It would be all quiet for hours until suddenly
someone was accused of cheating, then the board counters would
fly across the room. That finished the games for a while. We soon
forgot, then we would start again, choosing different partners
this time and keeping our eyes keen on the board. Aldred, Ernest
and May would join in sometimes to keep us younger ones amused.
Ellen often rushed into the room warning us father was upstairs
resting. She thought we were making too much noise.
Sometimes father would appear in the doorway to know what all
the noise was about, one look from him ws enough. Aldred, Ernest
and May would join in sometimes just to keep us younger ones amused.
Graham, Bill and Hubert received a cycle for their present, so
they were off.We did not take alot of notice of this as we knew
father was in a particularly good mood, we guessed he had done
good business. At lunch hour he allowed us to have our little
say which was very unusual. When we were at home, that was Sundays
and holiday times, we were unable to sit in the dining room for
meals altogether. Several had to go into the kitchen with Ellen
and there was always a big rush. We were certainly at ease with
Ellen and could have plenty. Ellen would carry the Xmas pudding
through the hall into the dining room. It would be soaked with
brandy when it arrived at the table. Father then would put a lighted
match to it. There was always a wonderful blaze. The ones in the
kitchen rushed to watch, they did not want to miss it and then
they waited for it to be served.
'Have you really decided to go?', said mother. 'Yes I think so,
the leg is very bad, I must do something about it otherwise it
is going to cripple me in more ways than one. I shall give the
doctor a ring tomorrow to make the arrangements'.
'What I want to do is make arrangements for home', said father.
'Well to begin with you will not be able to go alone, so that
will mean one of the boys going with you'.
It was a big responsibility, Aldred having control of the bakery.
Father gave him good advice before leaving, but so many things
had to be decided upon which father himself did not think about,
but when in doubt Aldred found mother most helpful. It was suprising
how good the three boys were, every spare moment they would be
at Aldreds side, so willing to help, but they were not allowed
to stay away from school. Mother was very definite about this.
The grain travellers would call on Wednesdays, the usual market
day, hoping to get an order, but father left instructions that
the buying should be left until his return as he felt sure there
would be ample supply. The buying of grain could be very tricky,
you certainly had to watch the market. We all felt sorry for Aldred.
It was rather much to put on young shoulders, but he did not complain.
He was very thankful to be at home having no desire whatever to
go with father. He often spoke of Ernest and wondered how he was
standing up to his ordeal. He felt in hs heart that this was not
his chose. Father was a little difficult particularly when anything
interfered with his business.
We received a letter from Aunt Bella in Wales asking if my cousins
could come and spend a holiday with us. Mother thought it would
be the best time, father being away and with Ellens approval (as
most of the arrangements would fall upon her) it was decided.
Mother wrote saying she should be pleased to have them. After
writing mother had thoughts. She took it for granted it would
be the two girls, Gwen and Freda. Now she began to wonder how
many would arrive because there were also two boys. Ellen was
a wonderful worker and cook. Most of her time was spent with the
gas stove and the sink. There were so many of us to feed she did
not mind the extra visitors, even four would make very little
difference. It worked out well. We received a reply. Aunt Bella
would bring both the girls and could she stay one night. That
seemed to please everyone. What relief.
We were looking forward to meeting our cousins. It would be their
first visit. We began to plan what to do each day. We were hoping
mother would arrange a Sunday to to go to the Quantocks and have
tea at the inn. We felt it could be done without father. The day
came for them to arrive. Mother sent a cab to the station which
called at North Street for Connie who was going to meet them.
We waited patently for them to arrive. Ellen was rather fussy,
running from one room to another, putting the finishing touch
to the table - it certainly was a spread. There was a huge bowl
of cream and of course Bowerings brown bread to go with it. We
were all peeping behind the lace curtains when the cab drew up
at the gate. One cousin sat by Connie and was very dark and Doris
said at once.
'Olive, she is just like you'. We thought she might be Gwen, she
certainly was a Bowering. When we all met at the gate, we made
ourselves known, we were right. The dark thin cousin was Gwen
and Freda was very fair and plump. Ellen came through the hall
saying tea was ready. Aunt Bella she knew well but had not met
for many years. In a short while we all were sitting down together.
There was such a clatter of talking over one another. We had just
finished the tea when mother arrived very early to meet the family.
We had a wonderful fortnight together. Such lovely places to show
them. They were thrilled. On Wednesday we rose very early to watch
the cattle from the country arriving through the streets, the
dogs rounding them up. The cows would go into the market place
and the sheep penned in the street with iron railings. We could
watch all this from the shop.
On the Sunday we spent the whole day on the Quantocks. Mother
arranged it far ahead. We did enjoy ourselves. We felt free and
easy. There was a swing at the inn which was vey much in favour
with us all. After tea we were able to walk through the Glen with
little streams running along side which led to Butterfly Combe.
We were proud to show the beauty of our own countryside and it
was the right time of the year. We drove back late evening. I
must say that we looked as though we had thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.
We had, everyone of us.
The two weeks soon came to an end. Aunt Bella arrived to take
the girls back to Wales. She again stayed overnight. They had
so much to tell her of course. Aunt Bella knew all the places
we had taken them.
There was no sign of fathers return. Mother, I could tell, was
a little uneasy. He had already been away a month and not a word
about his return.
We did not miss father a great deal. We hardly saw him during
the week unless we called at the shop. We did miss Ernest, he
was a bright lad and I am sure mother missed him very much. He
was so loving and considerate to her. He would often don boots
and pop into the shop as mother was leaving knowing she was very
tired. He would arm her home. On the way they would call at Grans
to see if all was well. He would see mother settled and then back
again to the shop for he had many hours still to work.
We did not hear for days from them how things were going at Droitwich
and then we had a card from Ernest. Fathers treatment was very
drastic and I think rather too much for him. He was a very well
built man and therefore had to reduce his weight considerably.
We knew he would not give in until he was completely cured however
long it might be.
Mother received a long letter from Ernest saying father was much
better. They would be returning in a few days. The treatment was
a complete cure, but unfortunatly father had just a slight limp.
This did not seem to worry him. He was only too pleased to be
free of pain and able to return home to the business. Ernest said
very little himself and felt he also would be delighted to return.
This was good news for Aldred. It had been a wonderful experience
for him, he had learnt quite alot having to make his own decisions.
He felt proud because the turnover from the bakery was presumably
the amount as when father himself was there. He could hardly wait
for his return to give the good news. He knew father would be
proud too.
So the day came for their return. The cab was sent to the station,
mother came from the shop to greet them. Father looked well, he
was considerably thinner and his limp was hardly noticable. Ernest
also had lost a lot of weight, which he could ill afford to lose.
Mother was rather taken aback as he had not mentioned a word in
his letter. By all accounts he had been pushing father around
in a bath chair, which he found was really too much, but knowing
Ernest he would not complain.
Father was soon back in the business. He felt there was no need
whatever for him to make up for lost time. He was certainly pleased
with Aldred, he had the making of a good businessman. He was well
trained and certainly had the ability and should do well. Things
were running very smoothly - back to normal!
The house seemed empty, you may say almost dead. All the boys
had gone with the exception of Reggie and there were three of
us girls left. That was quite sufficient for Gertie to manage.
Ellen was able to help a little in between, she gave up her evenings
to stay with us. It was often that way. We used to beg her many
times to stay in and read to us, especially on a Sunday evening.
What he thought of us all. He died just a year before my mother.
He was calling to attend to her almost to his end. I used to arm
him up the stairs to see her. They always had a long chat together.
One day he said.'Olive, I hear you went to a furniture sale yesterday'.
'Yes, I spent the whole time there. I bought some real bargains,
some Dresden china'. 'Mother is delighted, she is a lover of good
china.', I replied. 'Your mother thinks you are very tired today',
said he. 'Maybe. I was standing all day you know. Mother did want
that Dresden china, she certainly encouraged me to go. Although,
I must say I do love a sale'.
'You go', said Tommy , 'that is the only pleasure you have now'.
He knew I was the only one left at home.
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Transcribed and tweaked by Jon Bigwood, December 1992.
© Jon Bigwood 1996.