Ways to Remember

Twinkling Stars

1. Name a star

There are millions of unnamed stars and it is a lovely idea to name a star after your baby. The International Star Registry provide this service and they do their best to find you a star that is visible from where you live. They can be contacted at:

International Star Registry
23-28 Penn Street
London N1 5DL
Tel: (020) 7684 4444
Fax: (020) 7684 4443

info@international—star—registry.org
or visit their website http://www.name-a-star.org.uk

 

Treasure Box

2. A Treasure box

To remember you baby it can be nice to keep a treasure box. You can put anything in it, scan photos, teddies, a letter to your baby, remembrance cards, anything you want.

 

Trees
3. Plant a tree

Plant a tree You may like to plant a tree. This can be as simple as planting a tree or flower in your garden or there are companies who will plant a tree for you as part of rebuilding Britain's woodland areas. The Woodland Trust offer a plant a tree scheme where, for a fee, they will plant a tree at one of their designated sites. They do not label the tree but you will be given a certificate.

Tel: 0800 026 9650
http://www.woodland-trust.org.uk


Another scheme allows you to sponsor a tree. Your name will recorded in a record book and dedications can also be recorded.

Contact:
The International Tree Foundation
Sandy Lane
Crawley Down
West Sussex
RH10 4HS
01342 712536

4. Letter/Diary

Some members of a group felt writing a letter to their baby helped them through their grief. Others kept a diary of how they felt and coped.

5.Scans/Photos

If you suffered a later miscarriage you may have photos of your baby that the hospital took or you may have some scan pictures. However these photos can fade over time but it is possible to have a negative made of your photo. This means you can make copies whenever you want. Most processing shops will provide this service, but be aware some people may not realise what your picture is and be insensitive.

6. Name your baby

Naming your baby, no matter how early you lost your baby, can help give a permanent reminder. You can give your baby a name at any time, it doesn't have to be straight after your loss.

 

 

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