The new vows

(updated 31/10/2008)

These vows are said after the ring has been removed from the water, and is being placed on the finger.

Firsts vows

Seconds vows

"Even though you can not possess me,  I belong to you
I give you that which is mine to give,
I shall serve you in those ways you require,
I pledge to you that yours will be the name I cry aloud in the night,
I pledge to you my living and my dying, each equally in your care,
I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine,
I shall not slander you, nor you me,
I shall honour you, above all others"

These new vows are based on a Celtic Wedding Vow by Morgan Llywelyn

The old vows

I've placed a copy of the old vows, just for the sake of history. Please use the new ones listed above

Firsts vows

“I am your first, I take control, I will care for you as I care for myself, your will is mine.

Seconds vows

“You are my first, I am your second, unto you I give you my will and unto you I give control, unto you I give you myself, I will obey your orders.