F.A.Q’S and what the rings are about

I would like to state right at the start. WE ARE NOT A CULT, we do not believe in cults, we don't have a leader, we do not charge, we are not after your money, we are not after you.

what we do believe in

1. respect for your fellow man.

2. the laws of the lands that we live in.

3. everyone has the right to live there life the way they what to.

4. we are against all forms of terrorism.

5. we all make mistakes (forgive and forget)

there is a lot more, but that's a start

Question 1; what are the rings about?

The rings is about a lot of things it’s about caring for someone, sharing the life of someone, being there for someone. And yes it can be about controlling someone.

Question 2; did you just type controlling someone?

Yes I did. A first in a pair or set has control over any second in there pair or set. But there is a set of rules that first’s have to follow just like there’s one for seconds.

Question 3; is this like servant and master stuff?

No, is the simple answer it is more like a marriage of two persons see question 1.

Question 4; can it be like servant and master stuff?

Yes, so long as none of the rules are broken.

Question 5; ok I’ve got that but what is this first and second thing about?

The first is the leader of a pair or set. A second is those that are lead.

Question 6; pairs, set’s what are you on about? (You daft second)

A pair is two persons locked to a round of rings. A set is more then two locked to a round of rings

Question 7; what are rounds? And what are rings?

A round is a set of locked rings. Locked rings are warn by all of that pair or set. A ring is what you put on your finger

Question 8; are you on something? This is not making sense.

No I am not on something, but it is hard to explain.  

Let’s take Jasper and Jill

Jasper and Jill both have locked rings of there round they are a pair. Jasper is the first and Jill is the second of this round of rings

Rose wants to join there round. Jasper gives Rose a silver ring as laid down in the rules and Rose becomes s a second to Jasper now Jasper, Jill and Rose are part of a round, and are known as a round.

Question 9; do I have to run about naked on a moor or something to join a pair or set?

No, but if you want to you can J

Question 10; is being in a pair or set easy?

Maybe it is all down to how the first is running that pair or set, but under the set of rules it can not be undue hard.

Question 11; are there meetings and stuff that I have got to go to?

No. unless that round runs one (most don’t)

Question 12; can I start my own round?

Yes, all you need is someone else to start a pair.

Question 12a; did you just miss a number out?

My first will not let me use the number after 12 and before 14

Question 14; can this change my whole life?

Yes and no, if you are just a pair and you have been with that person for years you are unlikely to see any change. If you are a first you are in control so you make any changes you like, if you are a second you may find something’s may change you will just have to wait and see.

Question 15; I have a question that you have not answered.

Just now you will just have to work it out for yourself I will be adding a forum for firsts and seconds at a later date

You can try emailing me at theringsquestions (at) yahoo.co.uk